Why you should DECLINE coffee dates, "Let's go for drinks" dates, and long calls | PRINCESS DATING
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Funny enough, my last two dates couldn’t have been more different.
The first one — I took her out to dinner, and before I could even sit down, the first thing she said was, “Do you always take your first dates to expensive restaurants?” Not even a hello! The whole thing lasted barely an hour from seating to payout. By the time I got to my car to text her that I’d had a nice time and would like to see her again — her profile was already deleted.
Then came the next date. This time, I intentionally kept it simple — just coffee. We ordered, she even offered to pay, but I told her I invited her, so I’d cover it. We sat down, started talking, and before we knew it, four hours had passed — without even touching the coffee. That led to a second date, which turned into a great evening, ending with an unplanned but wonderful dinner — and once again, she offered to pay.
That’s what I call intentional dating — showing up genuinely, looking for a meaningful connection, and appreciating someone who understands that, especially in today’s world, being thoughtful and financially conscious matters.
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You modern women are entitled. You expect a sugardaddy date, anything except getting picked up in a ferrari and eating in a michelin restaurant are low effort or to cheap.
The point of a coffee date is a casual first date to get a first impression if there is a point in getting to know each other. We men should value our time and money. A coffee date is perfect because you can bail if you don't feel the vibe.
I would like to ask what does you women provide of value for the man that no other women provide or that he can't do himself, except your pussy? Being provided for is an extraction of value. The man worked hard for his money that you get to live on.
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Nothing wrong with a coffee date. Men shouldn’t waste their resources on unworthy women. Men should only take women on dinner dates when she first proves herself deserving. Women must earn dinner dates from good men. Chivalry is dead and women killed it.
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Dont listen to this. Women keep other women single. A date is an interview, not a luncheon. If a man is taking you on a 5 star dinner date from the jump, he has silently put you in the pump and dump category. If a man can't call you "cool" or "down to earth", you're already f@$ked, and don't even know it.
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Why are you guys spending 3 hours to get ready for someone anyways? That’s ridiculous. You’re doing all that for a guy you barely know… crazy lol. Anyways you should never drink alcohol on the first date. A coffee date is perfect tbh. You should only be spending 30mins to 1hr with someone when u go on a first date. Dinner dates are for someone who you have been dating and you’re already in a relationship. You’re not low bawling if you just want something simple. Coffee date is low pressure environment. That way you can actually talk to him or her and see if it’s worth spending 3 hrs of your time getting ready for. Dinner dates are more intimate. It should be for someone you actually are in a relationship with. We all know our worth. It’s about venting the person. You can even have a phone conversation to see if they’re worth going go on a coffee date first. you can do that without wasting time and energy. That way when you do dress up, it’s worth it. If you don’t like coffee pick ice cream or something elsewhere. Hell, even walk in a park is good. Now I understand if you’re a tad bit older and you feel as though u should have more…very understandable, but still coffee dates are still good for that. Just because he takes you on an expensive date does not mean he thinks you’re worthy. He could simply try to love bomb you. Vice versa just because he takes you out for coffee does not mean he thinks your unworthy. Ladies please stop this.
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I hope you ladies are happy being single. This advice will only leave you single. We men are not limited to just western countries we can go to any country in the world. Feminism killed dating. Why should we spend a lot of money on a date where women are there just to get a free meal.
@jonny777bikei’m so offended lol “grab food, coffee, or mby a walk” 💀 i’m sorry, i know who i am. maybe he wants to see if i look like the pictures. yes baby this is all me, i’m fire, i’m not showing up to no coffee to meet a grown man
@diior444I'm a woman and I think coffee dates are fine if you're meeting someone for the first time from a dating app. I do know personally women who will take advantage of men by having them pay for dinner, then never see them again. If I was a guy, I would not want to be in this position. I would invite a woman to a coffee date and pay. I do understand that some guys will put in the least amount of effort (coffee dates) hoping to get the most out of it (s$x), and you will need to weed these guys out (hopefully with a phone call, not a coffee date). Also, it's different if you already know each other and want to spend time together. Then, lunch or dinner (with the guy paying) is appropriate.
@thepragmatistAll 1st dates are to be low investment/ low commitment for the Both of you. You're welcome.
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Just show up in pajamas without the 3hr prep. He'll be fine. #divest
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@nunyab2914I'm here after a guy asked me for a coffee date also he lived a bit far (30 km) from my location and I said I can't come there so he said we can meet somewhere in the middle 🙄
He's also telling me to take the metro and come there we'll have good coffee.. I mean seriously 🙄🙄 so I started searching how to say no to him in polite way and I'm here..should I say him noo? I was wondering but after watching the video and reading the comments ..i said no to him
I deserve more than that 😌
This is very bad advice indeed. My ex and I went for coffee the first time. We were together for 12 years. If you wont have coffee with the guy then you're not that interested. If Chris Hemsworth asked you for a coffee you would be there in a heartbeat. Men vet women too.
@RobGordon35I promise yall, not accepting BS from men saves you not only money, but your health, you will glow up and when these men come back presenting you real dates being fake sorry you see that's not a flex even, they are testing how intelligent yall are that's it, always listen to your intuition and take your own life higher, these menz will watch you from where they belong, from below and far away.
@darthvadersmom1192its the same when he asks for time to think... these men dont want coffee or time to think, they simply are not into you just your body, ressources when I hear these things men look really stupid like an open book, they weaponize being useless right from the start... and then they ask their cancer sick wifes or pregnant wifes for dog gy. Make it make sense?
@darthvadersmom1192👏👏👏 I'm not spending three hours getting ready and blocking off 4-5 hours of my day so you can (maybe) buy me a $6 coffee and we can sit at an awkward table while people on their laptops eavesdrop on us. Does the date need to be to a Michelin star restaurant? No. But coffee is a joke.
@MoonFoxASMRWhy are men so cheap these days.. sigh
@jossintheraincheap dates, cheap man/life =player bc coffee dates means he can go on a date everyday, no effort, he only wants s-ex, he's testing how low ur self-esteem is so he can get u n the bed faster.
@queensun6059Women have turned dating into a business transaction? I have not dated in 15 years. But when I was dating it was about getting to know the person. That’s it. And if men and women are playing one up. Then your relationships are going to be crap. So I suggest that this stops. Dating is not a business transaction. And good men are not that shallow. It is not all about your looks .Less looks . More in the inside
@iamcedricpowell8051Delusions of Grandeur... A coffee date is not bare minimum to a stranger!
@lovedaily711sure! the female spend so much money to go on a date, but the guy was gifted his outfit. Remember ladies, we want to see what "you" look like, not what you can turn into. Go get your parents to "feed you". That's disrespectful. You want a traditional man, be a traditional woman.
@semperfi6512You go Queen, you're all 10 /10 🤓
@ball-tu7uxYou're missing the point....if a guy goes on 3 to 5 dates a week, and takes every woman out to dinner.....do you see how that doesn't scale?
@mike24789He doesn't.....bleeping.....know.....you
@mike24789I don't even know you.
What do I owe you?
For the women talking about they spend 5 hours getting ready and it costs them a tone.. I'm sorry but that's a you problem. I dont understand why anyone would need hours to get ready for a first date. In any case presentation is a pre-requisite, you dont get a medal for looking the part.
At first date stage you're are still getting to know each other, meaning that you're practically strangers to each other. Why would you want a person you barely know spending a tone of many on you? I find that to be strange. On a first date both parties should have no expectations of one another! But to genuinely discover more about each other.
Since when did dating become the goal?? Like ‘Trust’ Elaborate dates are earned! Not given. If the relationship is progressing accordingly for both parties, then it makes sense for you to splage if that's your thing! In any case the ‘Date’ is not the prize, the ‘Relationship’ Is!
This video is giving so many Red flags. The author has absolutely no idea what she's talking about. It all sounds good in theory, but in practice it will only live you out in the cold.
Strong and independent women, let’s see you all take men out to dinner.
@stevenbooth751You said it all right! will never go on another coffee date. It was actually her idea and then she didn’t even want any coffee. Dates don’t always have to cost a lot of money. The idea is nice but they are just boring, too quiet, and awkward. I need some type of action and that doesn’t always mean a bar. Anyway I’d rather just do a video chat than a coffee date.
@alex124241It's about courtship, respect and scrubs. Coffee scrubs
@feliciamccarron300You explained this perfectly✨👏
@TheYouTubePriestessthis girl is so entitled. do you really expected a man to pull out a hundred dollars to take a woman (he doesn't even know well) to dinner? really? you want an "expensive" meal every time a guy asks you out? would you buy an expensive gift for every man you meet on a first date? no!
do you know how expensive life is nowadays? are you even worth the hundred-dollar expensive meal? what if he doesn't end up liking you? then would have WASTED his hundred dollars taking you to your favorite restaurant.
nobody is low balling you... you're just entitled
Great video Isabel <3
@meltedblossomLADIES ! , From my own experience, long calls is the thing not to do ! i learned the hard way, i mean if he's that intrested , he gon invite you ! i wish i saw this video earlier ! smh
@TherealPinkEmpressYou're going to be single for life for taking this advice.
@tabithaedwards745I wish I had this advice 10 years ago lol
@Nesha_NatiOne guy asked me to the dollar movies lol
@amamendez9860Yes yes yes drops mike 👏👏👏👏🌸🌻🌸🌻
@joycumfycozy3601This is horrendous advice! You’re teaching women to commodify themselves 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
@wnttalkIt takes us 3 hours to get ready and they expect us to go to COFFEE? lol Nah. I'd stay home in pajamas.
@SirenaSpadesI think the reason why some immature boys chooses to take a women to coffee is because of a financial issue, and some dustys claim that they’ve had bad experiences and they just want to confirm that person is who she says she is, blah blah 🙄. His just not that into you, if he chooses to take you to coffee/ he want to have sex with you if he takes you for drinks / lunch his just testing you out.
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