To Anyone Going Through A Breakup (for boys only)

We are perfect for each other…but the situation doesn’t allow for it..I feel devastated, and I just want to text her again, but I know if I build the relationship back up it would hurt even more to close it later on.

“The culmination of love is grief, yet we love despite the inevitable. We open our hearts to it... To grieve deeply is to have loved fully. Open your heart to the world as you have opened it to me and you will find every reason to keep living in it."

This quote seems to capture it for me best, I love her fully, and I opened my heart to her with nothing held back, and now I grieve with anguish.

No one seems to understand the pain and the hurt this situation brings, and they all jump to the logic. My heart aches for her……

its been 3 years. I was alone cut everyone off. You need to put your head down work on yourself and if its meant to be she will come back. I promise you all. 3 years and as of yesterday we finally met again.

I was attending a church camp a couple of years ago, and met this wonderful girl named Kaylin. I liked her from the first time we spoke because we could easily talk about practically anything and found common humor. I enjoyed hanging out with her as if I had always been around; we stay up much longer than we probably should’ve and as the weeks progress, she soon grew to one of my favorite human beings in the world.

Eventually, things had moved from an innocent friendship to love.

Not only is she my girl, but my best friend and lover too. I could not even imagine life with out her, and I swear I thought we were going to grow old together.

Back when she went through tough times, all I cared about was her happiness and making sure that I was somebody she could depend on at all times. During such times, I’d find myself sacrificing much needed sleep by listening to her call anytime she had something on her chest, even when the next morning required that I was an early riser for class. The girl could hardly convince herself how brave and strong she was at times so I’d remind her how many more strengths she possesses that she couldn’t readily see.

Seeing her put on a happy face would makes me feel that whatever I sacrifice, was for the betterment of her happiness, no matter the cost.

I never helped her with the notion of “you’ll do it to me if I do it to you”, my love was a one way road and I was driving all the way.

Medical School has always been my biggest ambition. There was a specific Medical School I wanted to enroll in and as much as I admired it so was its proximity to where Kaylin stays. I knew going to school far away from her won’t be easy and as the admissions dates were nearing, I would often find myself dreaming of how the journey was going to be like but still with so much trust in my heart, I believe that we could still make it work and not let anything come between us.

My plans for the coming days were to constantly send her messages whenever I found time on my schedule, call her whenever I’d be free, visit her whenever possible and never letting her feel left behind even for an hour.

I always thought a distance like that would just be another hurdle we’d overcome, never thought it would actually become an obstacle in our way.

One evening, when I least expected it, I receive a message that is still etched in my mind; a message so cold and blunt that made me pause my thoughts for a good long time. The message said: “we’re done. This isn’t working.” That was all, no prior conversation, not even an inkling of warning.

Nothing, no, not even an opportunity to understand what actually had went wrong between us, and as usual, like I always hoped, after staring at my phone for a solid ten minutes, another message would pop up from her phone saying ‘I am joking!

I’m so sorry.’

But alas, it never came.

Everything seemed to be going down for me, like all my dreams had turned to dust and I had no idea where to go next. I would constantly reminisce about our memories together and wonder what I must have done wrong or what else could have I possibly done to save us. I’d spend sleepless nights reminiscing of the sound of her laughter and fantasize about the future that seemed too blurry to behold as the woman who had once held the key to my dreams was now out of my life. Every day was a struggle and even though it was difficult to

We just broke up. It was mutual. The both of us were having a rough time and we had gotten together and broke up before, but I think we rushed it the second time to get back to where we were. I wasn’t perfect at all I made huge mistakes. Mistakes that inevitably dragged us into going too fast this time and resulting in us both realising it’s not gonna work. We were long distance, but over 18’000km. We thought we could make it work, but we were in the exact same place as we were when we first met. I love her and I miss her, but I think it’s for the best. She’s gonna do amazing things

She was the person I lost my of my important firsts to. First person I introduced to my family, first girlfriend I went overseas with, first persons family I met, first person I truly love. And most important the first person I showed 100% of myself to. We’ve been in and off and it’s all because of me lying.

When I first met her I was out with someone else, and I still was talking to both of them for the first week. The first night we kissed I stopped talking to the other girl and we remained friends. From then on I never found anyone else attractive. Whenever she asked me about the other girl, all I said is that she’s just a friend. 3 times I could have been honest and 3 times I lied. I think subconsciously I was scared she’d leave if she knew. One night I blacked out from drinking and she went through my phone and saw my messages with my friend from the one week I talked to both her and the other girl. I told my friend she was “bad and fine” on the morning of the day I kissed my ex girlfriend.

From the night she found out until last night last night it’s been super on and off and she finally couldn’t handle the feeling of being lied to and thinking she was the second choice”

Now I’m giving her space to fix what was broken, and I hope I can do this. I will be back in two weeks with an update

Enaku nethu dhan break up Achu 💔 7/7/2026 Evalo nal avanga enaiku achum oru nal varuvanga uh nanachuitu irunthen ana nethu avanga solitanga na epavumea un life la vara matten uh solitanga na inaiku dhan inimea avanga life la illangaratha realise pandren athu romba kastama iruku atha ethuka mudiyala enakula avalo questions Iruku inaiku morning kuda poi pesanum avanga kita aluganum kenjanum uh yosichen ana one second thonuchu ipo valikuthu inimea avanga illandra nala dhana ipo udanea avanga na iruken apdinu solitanga ipo enna marum

Apo enna thonum relationship oru time break agiruchuna again and again Apadi dhan irukum vanthalumea ithum mara porathu illa
Ena explain and convince pani epadilam pani avala kuda vechukanuma letting go
Endrum anbudan -HARI SK

i wasn’t looking, then this women came into my life. the best kind. the most wonderful girl that brought back that missing piece in my life. that light. that hunger for life again. but my trust issues. the arguments bc of something i can’t control for some reason, it got to be enough for her and she left. i don’t blame her honestly.. but man i miss her. i keep checking my phone hoping it’s her. i’m crying super often at work, and before i couldn’t remember the last time i cried, and i know what im gonna get told, but im drinking and driving on sketchy back roads. i’m not actively trying to kill MYSELF, but i want too. i’m not scared of it. i hope everytime i go out for a drive it happens. i’m completely lost man. she was legitimately perfect. couldn’t have asked for anything else in a women. she was my person. my. mine. my person.. i’m in the bathroom at work right now crying bro. i’m a man. and this is what i’m doing.

we meet again man .. you got me through one of my most hardest break ups a few yrs ago .. and now here i am again.. ugh this is gonna be a long journey .. day 1 of loving myself ; putting me first .. and healing ..

She broke up with me 14 hours ago

Thanks man. That really helped

Thank you so much, this video made me feel way better❤️‍🩹

man its been more than a year, i still am not over her,i do nothing all day,i am literally wasting my youth day by day, i feel very bad

theres just this heavy feeling on my chest and shoulders i cant brush off

Pray for me she had ended everything in worse way possible 💔💔

Everything was perfect until her cousin made that happen

I’m not going thought a breakup,
But i might have to break up with her.

I love her, i don’t know what to do .

We broke up 6 days ago. Last night we agreed we can’t be friends. Pulling out of her driveway for possibly the very last time was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I spent the next 40 minutes crying my eyes out and screaming at myself while driving home wondering how I can just keep driving away knowing I love her so much and knowing we made each other so happy. Please someone give me some comfort in this place of darkness. I don’t know what to do and I just miss her so much

It happened about two days ago, she left me over text. She couldn’t even tell me in person. She saved me when I was at my lowest. And I’m still trying to get over her because she was perfect for me, but I guess I wasn’t perfect for her even though she told me a million times that I was. I need help honestly.

We’ve been together since we were 17, and now we’re 26. Just like that, everything changed.

I supported her through rock bottom and stood by her until she reached her biggest victories in life. I was always there for her.

It hurts because it feels like I’ve just been thrown away, like I never mattered. I feel so disappointed.

Life is just so hard, man.

Yea i am going through it after five years... my brother (ex) in law, divorced my sister after 12 years and a couple of months later, him and my fiance (ex) slept together. Over a month behind my back. Just found out today Happy 4th of July.

We were soooo perfect but the religion…, she was so beautiful and so respectful she had a perfect personality. She’s the prettiest woman I’ve ever seen. She is my first and only crush she is my first and only relationship. I’m not loving anyone after her. May god help her to forget but let me remember her all the time💔

I js went through a breakup after 1 year of dating. Todays Day 1, I won’t lie it feels horrible, it sucks seeing someone I was vulnerable with turn into a whole other person towards me. The things that help are to lean towards those who have always been there for you. Whether it’s siblings, parents, or close friends and eventually you’ll realize there’s more things in life than just a girl. I hope I use my own advice, for those going through the same I wish you the best ❤

Thanks Joey. I just have a 3 years relationship break up. My mind went hazy nowadays. Sometime I feel like I can accept the break up. The other time, I feel a tremendous sadness when I remember our good time. This video is really help me to sought comfort for myself and reach other people. Thanks.

She is ignoring me from last 4 days i forced her to tell she said I didn't loved u like u does i thought I love u but I didn't bye sorry and don't call😭😩😢🙏 so why she was with me .... Then pretending she love me i really missing her please help...I want her back but she is saying... Nothing can happen now ...byie I asked the reason she said I can't explain 💔

She liked other guys. Now i wonder if i weren’t good enough

Currently going through a recent breakup. 3 years together. I've never felt pain like this at any other time in my life. It's hell

I dated her for two years, we went to three dances together I loved her so much. She told me she never wanted to kiss, and I did. I wanted to try and work it out, but she didn't. It just feels like she doesn't care about me anymore. I put her first in everything. I gave her everything. She knows me in ways I couldn't explain to someone else, some of my best moments are with her. I can't. I just can't do this, man.

The relationship lasted 4 years and it was right after high school and the pandemic. So everything basically feels empty. Basically everything after high school and the pandemic was about and with them. She was my best friend and the only women i had ever been with. It really really hurts. But i know it had to happen.

Thank you. I really need it.

I just broke up with my girl recently I loved her so much it hurts so much

Thank you😢

Bro I have no one to talk to I just had her...😢 And our reason of separating ways was very sillyy that I can't take it atall I'm crying

I loved her but her parents didn’t love me! 💔😭

few days ago jusst asking her why her male friend went to their house for pool annd then yesterday they went out together and after her trip with his friend she decided to call me and said were breaking up

i just broke up with my girlfriend . We had a short but very sweet relationship. Sad that it didnt workout but i had to do it cuz none of our interest aligned and communication between us was veryyy bad

Please pray for me 🙂 im going through a lot right now

I spent 12 years working on myself and healing from my last relationship and 3 months ago I finally got into a relationship just for her to end it for 3 months i thought everything was alright I cooked for her we watched movies played games together I was in love with this girl but the whole time she didn’t feel the same this hurts so much I might take another 12 years off dating or just not date anymore I don’t wanna go through pain like this or get used like this anymore idk how i would be able to trust anyone anymore after this…

When was the last time I was hugged… 😢

Please fix it!!! I don’t wanna feel it anymore… we grew apart after 6 years we don’t hate each other but it really sucks…

Finally! Youtube recommended something useful. It's been 8 days since she broke up with me but it was good while it lasted...

I think I am the exception to the idea that this relationship ending will create a new one. I work 9 am to 8 pm. I’m 42, and I don’t socialize. I don’t think I will meet anyone new in my life ever again.