r/Topposts BOO-HOO I Got Caught Cheating!

If anyone is a perv, it is Mark. Also the Op's family must not have many brain cells to realize that they've been lied to.

Story 2: Mf left his wife and stable life for an emotionally/mentally abusive flip-flopping homewrecker and was surprised it backfired on him.

Yikes. That first story just happened to a famous influencer. It's giving divorce/no contact vibes. You married a third child, not a husband.

Ok, I am 40... I met my girl when she was 19 and "we just clicked". She's 20 now. I will stand on this hill until the day I die. My parents have been married for 39 years. He was 41, mom was 20. They are STILL together. Fuck this age gap bullshit

I will never understand cheaters. If you are that unhappy, leave the relationship before you start looking for something else. It's not that hard. Screw cheaters. I have zero empathy for them.

The abandoned story: I believed OP until the moment he said he was 35 dating a 20 year old. That’s predatory

“Why werent you watching the kids op” Shes not the only parent, people need to stop acting like women should do all the childcare

S1: As ridiculous as this story is, sadly this is a common double standard. Apparently only women should be the responsible caretakers while also taking care of the house and essentially work 24/7. Men don't have to do anything and any negligence on their part can be excused with "ADHD, autism (as someone with autism I'd NEVER treat my child like this so this is very ableist), childcare is women's work, well maybe he didn't know how to do XYZ, you should've communicated with him about XYZ, etc." Granted not all men act like this and some guys are held accountable, but if OP was tasked with watching her own children and did this, doubt anyone would've defended her actions and blamed her husband.

hell naw the last one should have meted his "family", telling them back to get lost and only then ingored them, but not blocked on the socials just to let them see what he was living without them

Affair Over: He keeps saying Alice sees me, attentive to me, wants me... It's all about him, it has nothing to do with Alice, he's just a greedy spoiled little piece of sh1t.

You know the amount of time I let my daughters stroller accidentally roll away, 0. That man is not trust worthy

God damn. Mark is an absolute waste of human cells.

Gods I have so much respect for OP in the last story

I hate cheaters who always say “oh my marriage got boring” like you did nothing to spice it up. Your partner doesn’t exist to entertain you. You need to communicate and find ways to keep the romance alive

I wonder why the neighbors didn't react?!

story 1: I have ADHD and a child. I've NEVER had a situation like this. If I'm going to be distracted, I ensure that I have a firm grip on her (Not so tight that it hurts her, but tight enough that I'd know IMMEDIATELY if she slipped loose). If I'm talking to someone, My eyes never leave her, often to the annoyance of whomever I'm speaking to - but this story right here is why I'm like that. Some may call me a helicopter parent, but I don't interfere. I let her live her life and experiment and find things out. I just watch closely to ensure that she doesn't wind up with lasting/permanent damage or death.

>I love my wife

>cheats

2nd story: Honestly, it sounds like love bombing. I have to wonder if op looked it up before writing the post.

Story 5: Oh please, not that stupid "The best revenge is a life well lived" bullsh1t again. The best revenge is not living a good life and letting your enemies get away scott free. The best revenge is living a good life while also making life Hell for your enemies! Why settle for one when you can easily do both? You get to live the good life and the douchenozzles who wronged you get punished for their sins! THAT is the best revenge.

OMG, I can’t believe people defend the POS husband.

Ill tell you why people sre attacking op in story one. Good old fashioned misogyny! Because op is the mother she has to be on top of her kids 24/7.

It might not be overt, but its a consequence of women being forced to be home makers for so long. Its like people assuming dad is "babysitting" when he has the kids.

Story 2: let me put it this way.
Say you buy a new car. The car is comfortable. You feel safe in it. You feel like it’s a car that reflects your personality and sense of style. The car is perfect for your lifestyle.
Do you trade it in when the “new car smell” wears off?
That’s how I feel when I hear people talk about cheating on/leaving their partners when it’s “not exciting anymore”.
The honeymoon phase will always wear off eventually. The things that really matter are why you picked that car in the first place. If it means that much to you, get an air freshener (in this analogy, that would be trying new stuff to keep things novel and fresh, like lingerie or toys or roleplay or whatever).

Last story, how about you tell them to “get lost”, and “that’s not my problem” and that you “don’t believe they’re actually willing to forgive”.

What comes around, goes around. Karma isn’t pleasant. They didn’t believe you, why should you believe them?

Second story: OP, you're a total pig, pure and simple.

First story: DID OP'S HUSBAND AND THOSE IN THE COMMENTS BERATING HER PUT IDIOT JUICE INSTEAD OF CREAMER IN THEIR COFFEE THAT DAY.

Sheesh. Fuck Mark. I’m glad OP came out on top.

Story 3 if the the dad would want contact i would tell him to sign the deed of his house over to me first then move out with or without his stuff first

1st story '"People asking why she wasn't watching the kids"... Excuse me? The DAD was supposed to be watching the kids at the time. Doesn't matter what she was doing or where she was. She could be out with friends, having a nap, a shower, doing laundry (as she stated), etc. The DAD was supposed to be parenting at the time, CAUSE HE IS THE PARENT. Don't switch the blame to the mother when the father failed in looking after his own child. She should be able to leave the children with their dad without worrying about their safety.

C section OP ........ FAKE, your stithes got ripped out after 6 weeks .... BULLSH!T
The stithes are removed after 5 to 7 days, 10 days at the most if you're a diabetic.
At 6 week it is completely healed on the inside and outside.
OP is telling lies to get people to feel sorry for her.

I used to be a very shitty person. A lesson I learned is that an “honest mistake” is a mistake you make with good intentions. There were no good intentions with ops husband.

There is absolutely no way I will ever respect people who stay with their spouse after finding out they cheated for YEARS. That lack of self pride doesnt sit right with me, theres always a way out.
The cheater itself needs no mention, spineless weasel that he/she is. Disgusting animal.

Even IF OP was a sick pervert who sniffed his step-sis's panties, this is overkill, okay you threw your 15 year old perv out, now what? The parents are in the wrong regardless if the step-bro was lying or not

1: this is a very serious red flag for parenting. I say get couple therapy. If he doesn't change, new husband coming soon

Id 1000% wanna see an update for the last story. I know id be extremely petty to them. If i even considered accepting their apology theyd have to do a lot to make things right.

The toddler in the first story is an inadvertent hero!!! I mean they didn't catch the stroller but man!!!

I kinda feel bad for Lisa in the last story. Her entire marriage was based in on ruining a man. That will mess you up. Well his life isnt ruined, but she’s married to a man who call anyone a pervert if you catch my drift.

When the guy said “she was really beating up my heart, then kissing it better” at 5:16 mark, it made me think of what my grandpa used to tell me grandma. She could be hateful in her words, then she would cuddle up by him like nothing happened. Grandpa would say, “there’s no use in kicking a dog then petting it while it’s down”.

Yeah, the Marriage wasnt "Stale" you just wanted an Out and an excuse to Cheat

First story, Husband has ADHD and they made a mistake, but they deserve a 2nd chance in this case, he is beeing remorseful. Just work out some rules.

Story 1: wHy YoU wErEnT wAtChInG tHe KiDz?? because the husband was supposed to be doing it??? she was doing laundry, but what does it care if she was sleeping? my wife and i watch our son together or take turns to be with him, she is feeling tired? dont worry honey, go and have some rest, i will take care of the kid and she would do the same for me, its stupid to blame the stupidity of one parent on the other, because she/he wasnt there

The only scenario where I wouldn't instantly divorce my spouce for letting our kid get almost run over is if it turned out they needed meds and they proceeded to then always take said meds.
Even then, it's still a maybe.

Damn, I was rooting for OP in the last story until he groomed a 20 yo and knocked her up 4 times...

Wow 1983 was his worst year

I think the saddest thing about the last story is that, even after 30 years, the brother is still not any better of a person

story 1
if something happens to the baby
it will not matter whether it's a honest mistake or not