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Charisma on Command

Charisma on Command

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How To Read People Without Them Knowing

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i even guessed my friends mood right online

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I think Sherlock Holmes was not fictional, it was none other than the writer who used different name,,, cause he wrote those lines, he noticed those pointss which no one could.....isn't it???

— @AhanaRay-q9j

Fans love Sherlock Holmes for his ability to notice things that most people ignore. While Sherlock is a fictional character, there are ways you can learn to read people in real life to better understand what they’re thinking and feeling without them saying a word. No individual read will be foolproof, but together they can start to paint a picture for you.

 

In summary just observe the room and be charms

— @brajeshkumargstregular9503

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0:00 - Intro.

"How to Win Friends and Influence People" was one of the most important books I've read. I still listen to it on Audible every year just to refresh... I think books like these, plus your channel, become more necessary given how so many of us are starting to lose our aptitude for socializing

— @PJGO131

0:56 - #1: Reading other people's interest.

1:45 - #2: Take note of the direction someone's feet are pointing.

Pinocchio Effect............ Crossing Arms is a Soother. So, BS.

— @swtofflemire

3:12 - #3: Read their emotions.

3:49 - #4: Look for micro expressions on their face.

Really engaging and well-presented, the explanation made the topic easy to follow and interesting to watch

— @anthonyclark-f8c

5:54 - #5: Their breathing shifts from their belly to their chest.

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The swallow is not always present but it is really very reliable

— @Flamming_lumberjack

#SherlockHolmes #CharismaOnCommand

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This reminds me of one of the characters in the now you see me series in which they guess what someone’s thinking by shouting out things and reading their actions and facial expressions

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2:36 this is one of many examples, but i believe this is the best one to say it, most of this does not apply to people with disorders, especially adhd or autism, i myself could be very interested in a conversation and super comfortable with the person im talking to, but i will shuffle around, fidget with my hands, and most of all struggle with eye contact, nomatter how close said person is to me

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I don't think that RDJ Interviewer didn't or couldn't read the signs. I think he could and he did. He was fully aware of what he's doing and he pushed on any way.

— @PACmanChompGuardians3D

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1:50 soo what does it mean. If someone's feet are pointing opposite directions?

@MICHAELAPIAREISYAP
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How to read the caption without noticing grammar 🤣

@SoulKing-x6b
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That’s why I just sit in the house don’t go out 😅

@johnjamesjames5125
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Dr Haha Lung wrote a book on this before it was cool

@JohnathanSheffield-f4g
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....so psychopath?

@ITZMVRCEL_FR
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How To Read People Without Them Knowing
Sherlock Holmes

@thefaithfulandtrue82
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@FitMargaret
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Friends, IMHO, it is always a risk to judge a book only by the summary on the back. It might provide an idea of what's inside, or not, but it is never the complete story. To know the book well enough to form an accurate opinion about it, there is no other way of doing so than by reading it, from the first to the last letter. Same story with a person: to know him/her/other well enough to form an opinion, there is no other way than to take time to properly get to know the concerning person. To know the whole, not just loose bits. To provide a simple example: a person yawns through a conversation. Many will conclude this as boredom. This can be so, but there is an equal chance that this person is simply tired. So instead of judging this person as rude, we need to get to know how this persons day has been. Did he/she/other work hard?, Get up very early?, Suffer from a common cold? As Sherlock Holmes once said: “Data! Data! Data! I can't make bricks without clay”. Friends, please, never be too hard on someone else by rapid conclusion or judgement, it might cause unnecessary harm. Proverbs 25:8: "Do not bring hastily to court, for what will you do in the end, when your neighbor puts you to shame?". Friends, may the wisdom of our Lord Jesus always keep our hearts and minds open towards others.

@Argent47-l8c
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Interest:start a topic see if they look here n there.
Emotions:when u say something notice the micro expression just after what u said, it tells alot whether they wanan talk, their feelings about it etc

@khanbabar72
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Yes algorithm show more

@khanbabar72
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It's condisidered a "hazard" to "read people"? It's a bigger "info hazard" to read their actual "book"? Look into someones history and brain and see how many days of sleep you lose. THAT'S why Yhwh warns against that. You can read someone.... but you "SHOULDN'T"... or should you OR should you NOT!!!!

Luke: Can i read all the fakes in my life?
Yeshua: I'll let you make up your mind on that one

@RedeemingLighthouse
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Well, everyone is unvomfortable whem they meet someone new. So how do we make friends if we just search for only a few that are interested in us

@Death_IS_coming777
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The "interviewer" from RDJ's clips is so bad at interviewing and so full of himself. Completely out of the moment and unaware of the context and the energy within. Oo

@PitoPilarico
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Dubb

@nevershudhavleft
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Plastic is also a human 😅

@mccoi6275
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One thing i would recommend is not to intellelectulize it. You have to feel how it would feel to that microexoresison and that can tell you.


You dont have to interpret with words but register it as a feeling.

For example with a smile. How does thst smile make you feel is it odd or does jt feel genuine.

@zenostrixster
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Totally unrelated but I remember how channel 4 tried to show this as clearly RDj is unprofessional- even though it’s the interviewer being unprofessional!

@zandernewson9933
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Have you ever looked at the show ‘Lie to Me’ great for the micro expression

@ItzaFashionMaritzaAyalaWalker
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bruh, Sherlock Holmes observes everything else about a person because he CAN'T intuitively read their emotions and expressions.

@slimemold4767
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People with a foot fetish will reape a great benefit from this video

@disorient0871
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5:09 and 5:16 He would not win that by being so meek, Rob had total control on that. If you don't have the balls to get into a tense exchange like that - crisis negotiation type - don't get yourself into that.

@GustavoSilva-ny8jc
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4:39 Or since he's an actor, a master of faking it, he reeeally knows how to use body language to scream messages even if he doesn't actually feels this way, you can see this when he was really pissed at the end of the interview, he could be very well faking it, exaggering it, using intimidation as a weapon (Tywin style, specially book Tywin) and not being that angry.

@GustavoSilva-ny8jc
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4:18 You can probably fake this too by becoming a good actor and use this as a weapon (Kira style). Especially if you establish yourself as someone inexpressive.

@GustavoSilva-ny8jc
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Love this video

@kernel1kadafi
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That guy that made Robert Downey Jr. uncomfortable was the same guy richard Ayoade trolled in an interview. haha! I get now why he did that.

@PlaytimeWithChichai
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recycling same clips...?

@JoseHernandez-xy8mj
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That Gates swallow...dishonesty

@HoldenMuhKnutz
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Sherlock: Your Pupils are dilated
Her: It's f*cking dark in here

@rehakmate
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1:45 this white model’s face looking straight at me freak me out.

@leandrorobles3200
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Tom Brady was more like: Damn those nuts are delicious

@markusvogt5519
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Honestly I don't want to know
iam already overthinking it😭

@jesmijoseph8065
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@marilynjeffery6211
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Amazing one started this book yesterday

@47RokuW
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As he said you swallowed more often

@pedro.6372
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The signs that I found more reliable were looking around while talking as a sign of boredom and the foot orientation.

@joaofranciscopires8601
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Actually, body language gives us a lot of information. Sometimes I feel I read it unconsciously, but I believe if I pay more attention to these details I would interpret the people's information more efficiently.

@joaofranciscopires8601
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Microexpressions are one difference between stage and film acting

@hobog
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This was a great video.

@508ctk