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The Trinity Theory

The Trinity Theory

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How To Get The Guy Whose OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE

Video Overview & Insights

In this video, I’m breaking down the idea of “dating leagues” and why they’re not real—they’re a mindset. If you’ve ever thought someone was “out of your league,” this is the conversation you need to hear.

I already followed him before the compliment step help yall and its my main too girlies can i still pull

— @sandhanitizer6426

I talk about how your frequency determines your life, why confidence is assumed beauty, and how the only thing truly separating you from the person you want is the way you see yourself. We get into self-love, attraction, mystery, and why chasing never works—but positioning yourself does.

I also share a step-by-step way to shift your energy and get the attention of someone you think is out of reach, without forcing anything or losing yourself in the process. This isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about realizing who you already are.

Trinity is 100% right. Leagues do not exist. My proof is Madeline Cline dating Pete Davidson.

— @StrawberryBananaBhabie-q8u

If you’re ready to stop putting people on pedestals, start assuming what you desire is already yours, and date from a place of confidence instead of lack, this video is for you.

Leagues aren’t real. Your self-worth is.

Trinity what if I don't have any social media?

— @IamSteveChickenjockyFlintnstee

SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

hey trinity, he's in my bus and were all in a gang, but its like girl with girls, boys with boys, and we play games. if we do anything, shipping will start instantly! how can i get him to like me?(we live in the same community, but he only comes downstairs doing my badminton or Bharatnatyam classes.

— @KotlcFangirl

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18:34 - step by step formula

@nitaa716
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Hey trinity! I have a HUGE crush on this guy since second grade and I'm finally ready for a relationship but I know I don't have a chance and I don't want to ruin the friendship. My friend wants to set us up bcz she has connections but I'm kinda scared. What should I do?

@EmilyMargaretJones
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starts at 8:09, couldn't find anyone else who said 💔

@glambli
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there is this guy I really like but we have no class together and we don't talk much but when we do it is all good vibes he smiles at me in the halls I want to start snaping him (cos I have his snap) so how do I go about it

@BUBBLES15000
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Heyy I really love ur podcast, I'm a new listener and I was hoping to get advice on how to get an older guy I like to notice and like me back.

@GofaKoontse
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GUYS HELP THIS IS A CODE RED! So I went on a school trip and met this guy. He’s two grades ahead of me and was really nice and friendly and amazing. We matched energy, and have the same interests so we hung out and talked through the trip. The hard part is that since we are in different grades, we don’t really get the chance to get to know each other more. WHAT DO I DO

@Camryn_Equestrian
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Hiiiii trinity I loveeee you so much I have a crush on this boy and I want to know if he likes me too he is kinda mean but he also is always trying to talk to me about EVERYTHING! Does he like me or is it rage bait

@Brooklyn-u6d
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As the oldest of my siblings and cousins in a strict household you are the big sister i always needed. Thank you for another episode Trin, love you sm!

@LylaSpams
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This is good advice for many people that it resonates with

@oscarpayan3543
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omg. ur my angel this has been on my mind so much and this vid made me feel better TY

@g_lovestheoceannn
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Also Your freckles ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!!! (And so are you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤)
#Youngersisterlove❤❤❤

@SoSo5555-t3w
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It makes me cry just how supportive you are 😊
I am an older sister who also doesn’t like to talk about stuff with anyone else but my younger sister who doesn’t know shit about what imma talking about 😂😢
And your videos change peoples lives, I promise ❤
It’s about time someone addressed these things and I’m really, truly glad it was you Trinity (Also props to your mama, or dad!) YOUR NAME IS BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤❤ (As your boyfriend said in the what boys actually think about is video… 🎵🎵🎵GoRGeoUS!!!🎵🎵🎵

@SoSo5555-t3w
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Trinity you are SO BEAUTIFUL! 😊
I have this boy who I like really LIKE, and he lives two states away. I see him about three times a year because we go to the same fair as each other, but are family friends…he “Feels” out of my league, and I’ve liked him for about 8-9 months. I feel like he doesn’t like me, but at the same time I can’t tell if he’s just being friendly, scared, or just flat out doesn’t notice me. He knows I “liked him” because I was talking about a boy (and how much I liked him, and how another one asked me out.) the last time I saw him, and that guy was like am I thought he was kinda cute crush but nothing to serious. Anyway I tried SO HARD not to like him because he is also in a grade above me because he was born in August and I was born in October, but we’re the same age, but I imagine/dream about a future together, a first kiss, an everything. I know he probably doesn’t like me but I at least wanna put my self out there. I am a little nervous talking to him, but then I start (cutely) degrading his ego because that’s the only way I know how to flirt. (Btw I am in 7th grade so I DO NOT plan on dating until like late 14-15. Plus he’s in 8th grade and probably has a bunch of cute girls in his class 😪) I see him every year though and it’s the only time of the year I can express myself and what I actually look like after I spend the year (unhealthy) sucking in my stomach. I don’t know what I should do to put myself out there…thoughts? (If you even see this…) and if any of you girls (I’m just assuming y’all are probably girls because of the video…) have any tips of stories I would love to hear them. Thank you 😊❤
“GIRLSssss WE RUN THIS MOTHA-*****!” (True dat tho, True dat…) ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Love, A VERY anxiety prone teen ❤😪🫣🙂‍↕️

@SoSo5555-t3w
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Nah not me listening to her saying so we have a boy and we have a girl and (I’m on Spotify with no visual) and immediately after a voice comes on saying bundle and save with liberty mutual and then after realizing it was an ad! 😂😂😂😂😂

@SoSo5555-t3w
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celeb crush...?? lol

@NeptunePlayss
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trin what if he like just doesn't like anyone like he's a new kid this school year and no matter how many girls ask him out and stuff he never dates them but like he's liked a couple girls (he's not gay he's had a gf before and i highly doubt he's bi)

@aleeza.mughall
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Hi Trinity! I have a question, so my ex friended me on a social media platform... but I don't know if I should text him first..? I can give background, but I don't know what to do.

@Hailee_Hehe
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2:03 I LOVEEE THOSE SHERLY TEMPLES

@Vivisophiaaa
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Hey trinity, I just dIscovered your channel and ilysm but I have a problem and I need advise. So its my first year at a new school and there's this guy that immediately stood out to me (btw my school is weird and we stay with the same people all day but just switch classrooms). But this guy is in my class and he was kinda accident of me at the beginning of the year but then out of nowhere I stared really liking him, more then I ever did before, but there was a problem. I was "dating" this guy from a summer camp that I like barely knew. I kinda realised that I didn't really like the summer camp guy and told him we were taking a break. Right after I ended this I was falling HARD for this guy (nicknamed-snickers) so I finally told my best friend about this and it turned out that she liked his best friend! Then like a week later we went on a field trip to this science museum and me and him and his friends got put into a group so we spent the day together and he kinda was getting comfortable around me, he was like trying to talk to me and was trying to be cool and 😖. And he was acting like he liked me for around maybe a month. Then this girl I'm not really friends with anymore got one of his friends numbers and she was "Subtly " asking him if he liked me. It turns out he thought he was dating this one girl that's absolutely gorgeous and actually found out about the nicknames at the museum😭😭😭. So for a while he like avoided me but me and my best friend kinda became integrated into their friend group. But now they all think I'm a creep because I like him and now he's giving me mixed signals again and I'm just so confused! So I'm sorry if this was long and all over the place but if you can give me advice about how to get him to like me back but still be chill with his friends you will be the greatest person ever. Btw Valentine's day is coming up and ik a lot of girls like him so Idk what to do abt that...❤❤❤💔

@alex_yourmom_914
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seen the ryan blair video... found the channel and watched a short just so i could click do not recomend this channel... leaving a thumbs down on this video...

@donlongo25
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YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW FAST I CLICKED ON THIS TRIN

@giadhir-i8e
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drop a video on how to get the guy below your league next 🙏

@ayfilmsx
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Okay so I have a problem I have watch so many of your videos and my sich is so unique I am in middle school and at my youth group at church I one night a middle schooler mishonary and his little sister showed up I like him and other people have shipped us including a boy but he does not have a phone and I only see him two times a week please help

@Daylin-ps8eu
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HELLO MY FAV BIG SIS

@AydlynBrigner-n9m
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Do you guys know if you have to retype your submission every week cuz I did the form for 2 weeks but she never sees it so does re typing it help her see it

@notheavenstts
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I just met my next big sister :D Trinity and Alana are my sis's 💫💫👌👌

@Thelastbraincell90
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This is exactly what I needed I like this guy who is popular, kind and out of my “League” so this is really gonna help😂😂

@Elena607-e5s
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I need advice from anyone in the comment section
There’s this guy that works at a restaurant near me and he’s really cute and every time I go in he like stares at me and fidgets and I’m trying to figure out if he likes me please if anyone could help me ❤❤❤

@EmmaH-d7f
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Can you do a video how to get your crush to like you if you have never talked to him but he is in your class

@Natalieisyours
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i actually consider you my much cooler little sister.

@ZhaneAlliyah
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Timing is crazy, I needed this 😛

@vidabovis
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"We do not want to have to do cardio, if we don't have to do cardio!"

@Sylvia-e4d
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Trinity, I completely agree with your opinion on “Leagues.” I wish I had seen this video earlier; now we're at different universities. Shyness took hold of me during those months. 😔

@belaaii77
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I heard the guy who is "out of my league" call me cute to some of his friends..! He started being suuper nice to me too, and we talked a lot during math. We stopped talking after a while, but I like to think it was mutual... I realised I cared way more about personality and while he was winning in the looks department he didn't really cut it for me. Still a fun ego boost lol.

@Crafty141
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hey trin!! i just needed some advice about this boy. i met him five months ago when he came to my church bc his family just moved to my town. i see him twice a week (on sunday at church and wednesdays at youth group) he’s really gorgeous lowkey and we just had our church weekend away about a month ago. i noticed him looking at me a few times and my friends told me if i walked past him he followed me with his eyes. however he did have quite a long conversation with this other girl who’s really pretty. last wednesday at youth group i looked at him and smiled and he was already looking at me. idk if he likes me but im going to his house tomorrow for lunch bc our mums are friends. please someone give me something 😭

@immy_sophiax16
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What if I have classes with him so cant disappear 😢

@МаргаритаНарубина
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Hi trinity to should definitely do a podcasts on how to get a Valentine ❤🙏who agress

@BoOkPeRsOnS
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My queen posted!!!💗💗

@Sammi_Rayne
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So I've liked this guy since I first met him and he has a gf who he's been dating for like a month and I thought it wasn't that serious but apparently it is and there's not a chance of them breaking up anytime soon also I never really talk to him even though he's in my classes

@Milly-e1s
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Hiii!!! I'm new here and I like ur vids<333 I truly needed this cus my crush (who's also a close friend of mine and is part of my cof) seems to be a bit way more out of my league cus he's handsome, he's really smart and articulate, and like, he's talented and skilled too and I feel like we don't stand on the same ground😭🙏

@Tipsy_Cola67
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Y’all I’m in school rn and this was posted 49 minutes ago 😭

@BaileyMeeks-x7r
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HIIIII I LOVE UR VIDSSS AND I CANT BELIEVE IM THIS EARLY LOLL. tbh ur like my big sis atp 💕 love uu

@Ikshita-p1p
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non blood related big sister posted yall wake tf up

@idekanymore711
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ugh been waiting for this oneeee 😍

@idekanymore711
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WOAH IM EARLY LOVE YOUR VIDSS TRINN

@Emovampdoctor
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hey trinity, just found out the guy I was crushing on for a year has a gf who has sent me death threats, but then I saw ur vid✨

@DakotaBartlett_223