how to be a better conversationalist | learn how to talk to anyone & attractive conversation hacks
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1. Create a list of questions and memorize them
2. Treat others how you would love to be treated or talked to in a social setting. Remember, you should think about offering value, rather than just thinking if this person likes you
3. Actually talk to people. Walk up to a stranger, and start a conversation. You have nothing to loose, and you only get better at it. So leave your comfort zone.
4. Listen to words of affirmation that are inclined to what you struggle with.
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More User Perspectives
I was once confident being able to make friends real fast and speaking in public. But people kept saying i overtalk and try to do everything since childhood, so now i'm in 11th grade and and i can't do any of these things anymore.
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@N.J.FavorsDo you have tips on how to stop a conversation with people? I’ve noticed that I’ve been on autopilot for so long for how to make other people feel comfortable and add value to them, I just kind of keep doing it, even when I’m not interested in continuing the conversation, and then the ironic thing that keeps happening is that I just keep the conversation going and the other person is loving it, but I am actually bored to death and wish the conversation would end but have no idea how to end it because I’m so afraid of making the other person feel uncomfortable that I just keep talking and hoping that they will end the conversation and then 🤯 does anyone else experience this issue? It’s people pleasing, I suppose?
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@AziaGreene-Robinson-37Hey my problem is I don't know what to talk about..like i can talk an stranger for hours but i can't talk them in day to day life and same goes to even close people
@Anyaforger-j7fDont act in a way that is different than ourselves dont act different Infront of someone be yourself
Dont think that how people will think about you or judge you instead be confident in who you are rather than to think who you should be to be accepted .
Dont think negative about yourself like what if people dont like me instead practice to visualize the best .
Dont think about the past that people hated you and didnt like you and dont think about the worst scenes it was just for lesson and you have experience now.
Dont think about the past that who you are you can be the person who you want to be. How can you be your past if your past does not exist.
Dont think that someone is better than you they simply have more experience and they have a different skill set in fact you are a different human being you have different path . We dont realize that we also have a different skill set and we have so many things taht they are lacking. We need to realize what skills we have we are better and we have to give love to the personality we have.
Be 1 percent better from yesterday. Develop new abilities by doing the things that you never do, be confident .
Maintain confident body language qnd maintain eye contact .
When you stop that someone will like me thats when you finally started to attract these people.
Dont be awkward when someone ask you first question answer them by saying the truth and act like they are your old friends and add more information in the answer .
Put your interest in them not yourself ask about them like if youre dating them or want to know them and act like you like them and have interest in them.
Know about them and ask them average questions about their life.
If you ask someone anything then carefully hear their answer and when they answer, question something about their answer and then ask other question .
Listen to understand not to answer and dont think pf what to ask next just listen to what someone is saying and ask them questions about it. Be like a parrot who copies everything when someone says for example ask the last words of what someone is saying like of she say i am so happy say why are you happy and if she say i danced today ask with whom or why did you dance in short repeat what someone is saying.
Dont think that how if people liek me what would they think about me etc instead think that how to make someone day better how can i have meaningful conversation with someone.
Approach people like you know them and like youre their old friend .
Dont do awkward smile instead smile like if they are your old friends or you meet them after slong time and pause 2 seconds and then smile .
Everyone is anxious like you and think that people would like them so be the first to start the conversation .
Wow! This is amazing advice! You pinpointed my insecurities, explained thoroughly the logic behind it while providing great strategies for building better conversations!
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I thought I didn't need this because I'm a very outgoing person (with younger people) but today I was talking to an older lady and realized it was challenging conversing with her, I felt very shy and awkward. I did expose myself to the situation though and I'm proud of myself.
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@leyl7.77also a major thing, conversation is a two-way thing!!! I feel like I'm always stressing about what to say next but if the other person doesn't even care or ask me any questions, that's a huge red flag
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