How Sociopaths Actually Work | Authorized Account | Insider

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"How does feeling feel like for you?" - Patric Gagne



What a great question if you want to understand your kids, friends, partner etc. or even yourself.

I am so glad that we seem to move into a direction where humans can be honest about being themselves more and more because it only has positives.
"Society" starts to unterstand that every human thinks and experiences this universe quite differently.
And because everyone is different, everyone has different needs, but also brings different views and skills to the table. This world is so much more complex and the sooner we stop trying to put others and ourselves into neat little boxes, the better.
Yes, this means more complex problems but also more and better solutions....individual solutions that will lead to a better life for everyone and, in the end, the world will be so much richer because of it.

PS:
Can't wait for the times when humans understand other humans AND themselves better and all of our hundreds of fallacies and biases that warp every thought we have. And I think we need something like the scientific method for "thinking" and decision making.


I think if we understand how fallible humans really are we can finally be more humble and reduce arrogance and ignorance. And this will also lead to a society, where we are way more willing to help each other instead of constantly thinking "We are right, and they are wrong" and then fighting about it.
Because the probable reality is, that we are both wrong! :)

And this will hopefully then also lead to a world where people stop putting themselves and others into boxes of "Republican" or "Democrat", "Left" or "Right", American or European etc. pp.
And then humans will hopefully stop blindly following a few "leaders" "oligarchs" and this "Authoritarianism" and understand that YOU are as important as all of he rich and powerful. And guess what happens then? Once we stop viewing them as "powerful" they get less powerful!
And it will lead to a way fairer world.

I mean it is better then 100 years ago, even better then 200 years ago etc.
So, we are on a good way...but it would be really nice if we would speed a little bit up! ;)

This does mean a lot , to give many people hope that there is a chance they can learn to understand and manage the thoughts, impulses, and behaviors. Thank you

Her eyes looked so h
Joyful when she recounted stabbing that other child😩😩

I like her...i could easily see myself helping someone at the grocery store w/their bill, not to be kind, but simply to keep the line moving.

NOW i do have a strong sense of right and wrong, So yes , I would feel guilty about something I thought was bad.... But would NOT feel guilty at all about something, I did not think was bad.

I don't really care what people think of me, EXCEPT the person who signs my paychecks.

All in all , I feel like a pretty normal person😊

There's a few more diagnoses that could be applied here. The brain is an organ unlike the others in our body. It too needs to be monitored but more in depth as to protect ones self and society. At my junior senior age now and with the many decades of the observance of this "topic" I am not surprised anymore by the negative impact of the brain whose effects toward the affected impact has on us all. Her words make for a superb case study and may she stay wrapped in her warm cocoon.

This one. Oh boy... there is a such thing and dark and light. This one is dark and justified

My next door neighbor is a narcissist sociopath and definitely thrives on harming people. It’s gross to watch her in action. She doesn’t care.

Sociopaths are normal people that have a demon(s) in them. Documented spiritual deliverances with redirected values by the individual proves this is true. A drive that gets satisfaction only through doing harm to innocent people further supports it.

The point about relationships is very powerful. The fact that they were able to have honest conversations about her “limits” or her “condition” meant they were both saying “I can trust you”’ and “I can be myself with you and that’s ok” In my experience relationship issues can come up when there's a lack of psychological safety. Often it comes out as “I shouldn’t feel this way so I won’t admit this to my partner. It’s dangerous to admit this” and that’s how we go down a path of splitting away from the other person.

Hmmm its a Catch 22. I don’t think family are the people to be caring for these individuals. What is happening is a power struggle within a sociopathic individual. When they feel insecure, they want your security. And caring individuals are usually the ones who want to help. So, if you have extra time, money or energy to part with great. But you need to understand, sociopaths are addicted to their own affirmations and will minimize you to feel better. So, if you take that risk, you should know the risk because they wont tell you. ❤

minute 2 - 6 the recipe for creating life long problems in children and for the world.
1. dont take time to understand ur child or get help
2. the child protects themselves and it goes downhill from there

The 16 Tribes of Man
Environmental Advantage and Intelligence Cognitive Adaptations (MBTI correlation)

Predatory Systematic (INTP and ISTP)
Predatory Simplistic (ISTJ and ISFJ)
Predatory Refinement (INFP and ISFP)
Predatory Complexity (INTJ and INFJ)

Parasitic Systematic (ENTJ and ESTJ)
Parasitic Simplistic (ESTP and ESFP)
Parasitic Refinement (ENFJ and ESFJ)
Parasitic Complexity (ENTP and ENFP)

Symbiotic Systematic (ENTJ and ESTJ)
Symbiotic Simplistic (ESTP and ESFP)
Symbiotic Refinement (ENFJ and ESFJ)
Symbiotic Complexity (ENTP and ENFP)

Synergetic Systematic (INTP and ISTP)
Synergetic Simplistic (ISTJ and ISFJ)
Synergetic Refinement (INFP and ISFP)
Synergetic Complexity (INTJ and INFJ)

Memory Formatting Cognitive Motivators:
1. Necessity vs Unnecessary
2. Desirable vs Undesirable
3. Knowledgeable vs Ignorance
4. Capability vs Ineptitude
5. Sequencing vs Categorizing
6. Eidetic vs Condensed
7. Opportunistic vs Equitable
8. Dominance vs Conformity

Perception= Unnecessary Desirable
Determination= Necessity Desirable
Judgement= Necessity Undesirable
Principle= Unnecessary Undesirable

Submissive= Knowledgeable Ineptitude
Assertive= Knowledgeable Capability
Withdrawn= Ignorance Capability
Dismissive= Ignorance Ineptitude

Refinement= Condensed Categorizing
Complexity= Condensed Sequencing
Systematic= Eidetic Sequencing
Simplistic= Eidetic Categorizing

Symbiotic= Equitable Conformity
Synergetic= Equitable Dominance
Predatory= Opportunistic Dominance
Parasitic= Opportunistic Conformity

Human psychology exist in a spectrum where select clusters of people will have the advantage based on their cognitive capacity to deal with their environment.

Type is influenced by the parents but is not fixed to genetics. Each individual uses 16 cognitive processes which are formed by 16 different cognitive functions.

There are 64 different possible psychological adaptations. Some of those types have overlapping traits which allows for synchronization and collaboration.

Humanity is not made to coexist alongside all other psychological types. All types have an opposition types. The more one tribes environmental circumstances are made ideal for them the more their opposites will struggle and suffer.

No particular tribe is superior however some tribes are not suited for existence amongst those who make civilization possible.

Each tribe is meant to be segregated with only few being capable of harmony and peace with other tribes.

Not all tribes have to exist or have a population. Humanity is meant to adapt to the best psychology for their prosperity. Those unfit are meant to die out through natural selection.

• Parasitic psychological types are motivated to seek infiltration and/or appropriation of identity in order to gain access to privilege and/or virtues they will never earn for themselves.

• Predatory psychological types are motivated to develop advantages and exploitations in spite of any and all detriment to the others or the environment.

• Symbiotic psychological types are motivated to conform to an identity and form a collective which will allow them to thrive together as they would be incapable of competition individually.

• Synergetic psychological types strive for self sufficiency and independence for the purpose of never becoming a burden on others or their environment to allow for systemic efficiency.

• Systematic psychological types are advantaged under heavily structured and predictable environments. They hold a preference for systematic order and rigid adherence because they would otherwise perform poorly as their intelligence is slow to process the unknown.

• Simplistic psychological types favor simplistic lifestyles which require very little need for complex thought. In such conditions they develop superior motor skills and identifications. This allows them to sustain a life through mastery of their environment.

• Refinement psychological types favor environments where there is freedom to develop reason through trial and error. Unlike other types they do have the capacity to learn from mistakes and make improvements in order to adapt to ever changing ecosystems.

• Complexity psychological types are people best suited for seemingly complicated and chaotic environments. They specialize in critical thinking and problem solving which allow them navigate the unknown. They develop foresight and gage potential to achieve desirable outcomes.

To be fair, nobody would care about others after peeing themselves😂

I kind of envy her. It must be nice to not be ruled by your emotions.

Taken at face value, this really helps me relate to what it's like to experience life with this kind of brain setup. Thank you for sharing!

In other words, she's that person who'll betray you in the zombie apocalypse.😂