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Benjamin Seda

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What to Do on a First Date (Full Guide)

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👉🏼 Get 1-3+ dates per week FAST (coaching)

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— @realbenjaminseda

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What to text after the first date and when??

— @michael_rwm

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Dude...you straight up stole the thumbnail from Coach Kyle. EXACT same "Works Every Time" lettering PLUS the hugging girl scene except you AId yours

— @j_kz-q8

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0:00 Intro

Yes all good stuff, but I wish he could stop to TAKE A BREATH occasionally to give us time to think! .
So many dialogues like a MACHINE GUN. It's too much😮😮😮

— @kerryfoster1

0:16 Don’t be afraid of this

1:38 How to create tension

If she talks a lot because she's nervous you have already won it with her. It’s not really a valuable tip tbh...
1:17

— @treoui8739

2:12 The most important assumption

2:30 How to be unforgettable

Crap o la

— @lazmotron

3:42 Don’t mess this up

4:35 The biggest mistake in conversation

wish me luck guys, 3 hours left

— @jsnnkkzi

5:50 Go deeper or different

6:07 The audition frame

Thanks

— @KamilPodhola

7:27 Don’t wait too long before doing this

8:40 Maintain strong _____

what the helly

— @HowToSpace-j9u

9:08 The key to making her attracted

This is really helpful, a guy is asking me out for a date and he wants me to figure out the place, I politely told him, he should use the Google map and find a nice place, I'm not gonna do that for him.

— @baakisenator6580

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his links are not even working lol

@sampauwels539
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Thank you for this, since I have a date happening tomorrow

@xxRafaelProductions
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I think rule 5 is wrong. I’ve heard to let women initiate everything since they are natural seducers and you’ll fail interest tests very quickly by initiating physical things, which is a turn off.

@rynoman30
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“Don’t be afraid of saying the wrong thing” — I feel like this advice doesn’t work if you’re a disrespectful jerk like me 😂. I have not developed the instinct to say “has anyone ever told you you talk a lot” over “shut up and let me talk”.

@louisdang8477
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Why are you single if this works all so good? :)

@thinkimmoconnectpodcast6017
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The thing is that I am 11 and I am going on a date tomorrow and idk what to do someone help mee please

@FrancescaJones-y1l
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W

@KaungKhant-88
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@codrin1735
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@codrin1735
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What. The fuck is this?

@roar880
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Where are your Top 3 Lines? Theres no link in description

@gunnamvp7299
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if she leaves you on read if you ask her what she wants to do than just dump her anyways. ofc its nice if you have plans yourself but imo dont waste your time with someone that drops you for something like this

@isquaturcurls9591
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The only thing I have a problem with is I don't know if I'm ever going to get a girl because one I don't have a car I don't have my license and I don't think I'll ever get them because I can't read that great so how do you do it then if a girl wants you to do everything when I can't do everything is one I got a disability in my disability is my brain focus is a lot slower than everybody else's so how do I get a girlfriend if this is the problem coz for me I keep getting friendzoned and played and it I'm just tired of it I had a girl I liked and she likes me she told my mom and then I finally asked her she said no it made me upset we were still friends and then my best friend died I needed her there so I wanted her to give me a hug she acted a little weird so I called a pointless when I needed her the most she hated me we haven't talked then I ran into her in May at Walmart she had a smile on her face and she said something I just didn't talk to her cuz I didn't know what to do and so yeah I think she still likes me but I'm not sure she just plays too many games I really do care about this girl though but I don't know

@batmanrise4737
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i can t understand this fact , of course i need her , she can be the mother of my kids , they can t be born otherwise ,wdym an addition ?

@Denis.4203
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10:02

@sanguitar99
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“60% of the time, it works every time.”

@Niru_dayo
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Niceee

@mitoec823
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Just one simple trick! Be rich.

@heathmcrigsby
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The only thing I would say about this is definitely sit across from the person on the first date. Especially if you met over text and haven’t seen them face-to-face before. If you sit next to them, for one you’re gonna have to constantly turn your head to talk otherwise you’re gonna both be talking faceing the same direction. so have fun getting a neck cramp. You’ll also have to stop eating to turn and talk to them which can be a disadvantage because if you go out to eat for the first day, the food is actually a good thing to keep you busy while theres “awkward silence” listening to the other person. Secondly while yes, sitting next to them offers physical contact, which can enhance the date or attraction. It can also very much make it more awkward if they don’t want to be physically touched that soon or are not comfortable being that close to you right away. Just overall it’s more awkward and unnatural and can be weird. Sitting across also lets you analyze their facial expressions, where their eyes are(often in the distance or on you), good eye to eye contact conversations, etc.

@TheFlyingHeifer
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all you boys need to raise your standards beyond just a "pretty girl"
you don't want a dumb girl, trust me.

@kkp4297
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if you ignore the pretty face, you can gain a lot of confidence.
focus on the brain behind the face. I only get intimidated by super smart women.
good looking women are nothing.

@kkp4297
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Not sure why I'm watching this, I'm never getting this far.

@mentats11
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Great 💯 content thx 🙏date planning - Thoughts on asking for food categories or anything she def doesn’t like? Assume meeting there 1st date, not picking up these days right? Apps/drinks versus coffee/walking dates? Thank u ❤

@JaredJacobsonLaw
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Ik this is going to be soooo helpful on my next date because I’ve watched videos like this before but this one feels unique and right

@porterkennicott2163
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Dates? Nope. Never.

@orzorzelski1142
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Exactly. Be calm, be happy, be you.

@MrFreedomRebel
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Where is that jacket from

@GaryMoloney-q3s
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just wanted to comment to... you know... feed the algorithm and stuff...

@AdrianoxLive
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Step1: Say what you want, don’t be afraid to say the wrong thing
Step2: Don’t say wrong things 😂😂😂😂

@do_paa_mean
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thats some good advice

@samuelherber8000
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There’s only one thing you need for a successful first date.

To not have a first date.

When you first meet.

That’s your real first date.

Using ‘dating apps’. Going to step on a lot of toes. But those are for hooking up. Not even real ‘dates’ most of the time.

You will know immediately if she likes you.

There should be no need to ask for a ‘first’ date. You are literally on your first date.

Sure. Now you’re on your second date.

Here’s what you do.

Shit shower and shave. At least do bare minimum effort.

Second. Wear clean neat tidy clothes. Don’t dress like a freak or a tool.

Third. Be your fucking self. If your persona tells inappropriate jokes. Fuck yeah. Tell em. Be yourself. Don’t be fake. That’s dishonest and leads to dissatisfaction down the road.

Fourth. You don’t need a fourth. The three should be more than enough.

This applies for dates that you want to continue, hopefully one day, to a relationship.

Sorry. I don’t give fucking for fun advice. That’s not my gig. It’s gross to me. Disgusting really. Sticking pole in unknown ho(le)s. Absolutely gross.

@jasonkrick1614
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You're content is awesome! Greetings from Spain

@adrianjusticia4832
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5:50 it works but most of the time i get: "I don't know for an answer". Which is annoying.

@Josh-cq5pr
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I want Zeus back

@christophervolodarsky6049
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It's 10 times harder when you're not naturally confident. Women will pick up the slightest hint of faking confidence.

@AlexDeLarge859
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wouldnt you have to ask her what she does for work first before you can go deeper into it? otherwise how would you know what to go deeper into? .......good talk chief.

@mikeerickson967
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F these dumb women who decide based on texting

@coldguy4926
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Ben is a 👑

@626lifeaa
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This is legit good advice

@davidlumend
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Thanks for this! I will use these techniques on my next date.

@Manhattan_Heretic