Relationships Have Too Many People In Them…

I am abit undecided about hard and soft launches.
I have had people find out their partners cheat on them with evidence after hard launching and I appreciate knowing that personally because I don't wanna be on sexual chains with hiv in a rise

But also, I don't want to put my partner in a line of fire.
I saw a couple hard launch and girls started hitting on the man and another girls posted and she was told the man was too ugly.


Hmmm....

2:38 I’ve watched your videos some many times , I literally say this part with you 😊-I love it don’t change itttttttttttttttttttttt

@5:52 - was that Epstein??

loved it

"Post your partner or stay single"... What I find interesting is how now people assume that if you don't post social media, it's because you have something to hide. The consensus being that you HAVE to have your whole life on display or else you're untrustworthy. This is such a stark contrast with my generation (millennial) where it was hammered into us to NOT post anything remotely personal. But if anything, it's the opposite : you're never more untrustworthy than when you post everything, because, as much as you want to be real, you will never post the full reality of your existence. You will want to post the best (or better) version of yourself, and as such, you will never be true because you're always performing. This is the death of authenticity.

Finally have smth to watch while i eat! Girl, you’re saving my evenings!!

I really enjoy your content thanks 🤩

4:30 this was their pop the ballon basically 🤣🤣🤣

I accidentally soft launched the guy I was with during a drunk moment... I got messages when I came to the next day about whether this was a soft launch lol I was so mad 😂

nothing is sacred anymore; everything needs to be shown, validated and reacted to

I watch 3 episodes of love island 2025 for the first time in my life at an ex friend's house. I was shocked and disgusted that this was what everyone was raving about. Especially the games I couldn't even finish the videos never watching it ever again.

Love Island has been on for SEVEN YEARS. Love Island is not responsible for a large amount of people from the current young adult generation putting their relationships on social media and then complaining about everyone knowing about it.

Yea "boring" shows until the Dating Show had an invited serial killer and handed a victim to them. T-T This is also known as Rodney Alcala or "Dating Game Killer."

NEWSFLASH!!!!! Some of us partners DO NOT want to be posted . My partner knows I don’t like it so she post subtle post and I’m ok with that.

do people not just actually get to know their partner anymore?

It’s a problem no matter what we do mane , like why do ppl care how someone post their partner. If I wanna post him full or crop him out that’s out business. Ppl talk no matter what

Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

nah, oldhead queer from the south. nobody needs to know who i am, who my partner is, how we're moving. none of it. it can get you hurt fr! it can cost you housing, job opportunities, people will run up on you, try to run up on your partner when they're alone, shoot up your house. the summer gay marriage was passed it was rough as hell. we had klansmen that would literally run you off the road into a ditch because two would pull up beside you and one would ride your bumper and if you stopped you were gonna get fucked up and they would literally put you in a ditch. maybe it's old school but nobody needs to know shit. that's between you and that person and the people in your real life that you know are safe if you want to tell them but nah. it's just too dangerous to put all that out there these days people are fucking nuts man!

i've never been so happy to have no clue about who any of these people are

why are these people so mad about privacy LOL

The Dating Game was "reality tv" bc it wasn't real either and the contestants were famous or hopeful actors, not "normal" people

The problem is not posting the problem is the commercialization of social media. Social media was supposed to be a way to update your friends but now everyone wants to be an influencer and have millions of followers so that they can make money. Social media stopped being social and became a business. We con no longer separate entertainment and people just sharing their life with a few people. I stand by this not everyone and everything on social media is meant to be an influencer or for mass consumption. We need to separate entertainment from our private lives

15:12 shouout to queen chiomma

My ex boyfriend would post when he would buy me fast food. I asked him why he felt the need to let everyone know he's buying me food. I didn't have a Facebook but he kept begging me to make one so he could tag me in pictures. I kept telling him no and that I did not want a Facebook and my business on there. He asked like 13 times. He ended up going behind my back and creating a Facebook for me and posting pictures without my permission. He would tag me and brag.

"Bought my girl Chik-Fil-A....because that's what kind of boyfriend I am"

It turned me off so much. Also to add, he didn't have a job and I was wondering how he was even buying me food (which was like once a month)....I usually bought my food/other stuff and got things for him. I ended up finding out he was committing identity theft, stealing people stuff to get money and his mom was giving him money. The food he bragged about buying me once a month was bought with dirty money but people were giving it hearts and thumbs ups while not knowing just how toxic our relationship was. We were both toxic people to be honest and girls were probably seeing my pictures with him and thinking "Oh, she's so lucky to have him and he's so lucky"

When in reality....we both sucked and we were both morally corrupt.

I am so damn sick of seeing women put makeup on while they're talking when it's not a makeup tutorial video.

They're all doing it because they're seeing a thousand other girls doing it. Such a copy and paste world we live in.

I will say this; I had a breakup because of this, they wanted me to do it (which I did) but when I asked, they never did and said "what if I put something on an IG note"

I don't care if Socials know who I date, BUT they will know I am dating.

When we're all the "main character" we're all the center of the world. When we're the center of the world, everyone needs to know why the other person is at fault.

I never watch couples channel. I always knew it fake. They pretend they lovely couples on social media but behind the scene, we know they fighting.

10:26 am i tweaking or do i hear the saxophones like I’m being deadass

Me an my partner are very private on social media its best that way

The small matpat appearing on the "I have a theory" I love that reference so much

Tell Em’ by Sabrina Carpenter is an amazing example of my relationship 🤭

Some of my family just found out I’ve been in a relationship for 10 months now 😭 I don’t post updates or pictures (I did post 1 but he’s barely in it lol) we’re just lil weirdos 🥹

Flavor of Love was so iconic lmao I still quote it daily.

I grew up with a dramatic household, like big screaming fights between my parents. And part of it is how they grew up but i kind of wondered later if dramatic shows taught us as a society that drama is passion and love. When i met my husband i was dramatic and he was just not. He let me yell, cry, insult him, etc. (i am ashamed of this) and he took it with grace and silence. Eventually i realized I didnt want to be like that anymore. I wanted to be at peace. It was a lot less stressful.

People thought I was crazy for saying that the amount of drama on Love Island takes an emotional toll on the islanders. They’re not Sims for people to play with. Some fans want nonstop drama just so they have more reasons to hate people they already disliked in the first place. That has zero positive impact on the people coming out of the villa, just like that former Love Island girl said last year.

My man is a working professional id hate to post something that will effect him in his professional life. And I soft launch because people really forgetting i got a man its just a reminder I'm still taken

i don’t like who you keep cutting to the voice is too loud

Game shows will always better than dating shows to me. (It’s just my opinion, please don’t come for me!)

If it was me, I would just post that I’m in a relationship that’s it. People are jealous and nasty these days to start drama online. A physical photo album is more important than the internet.

More than four is too much

I also think some are insecure I they do not want to put him on the map for other women to peep 👀

With the ‘hiding partners face’ thing—does it not occur to anybody that maybe the partner just doesn’t want to be internet famous but they know it’s important to their partner and a big part of their lives and this is just the agreed upon compromise? Like the social media butterfly gets to do their posts and the less social partner gets their privacy

Hopefully nowadays in dating shows they do better background checks. On the original The Dating Game one of the contestants was an actual serial killer—he actually won, was ‘picked’ but after the show the bachelorette very wisely refused to go on the date as she got really bad vibes from the guy.

GRWM to break up with my boyfriend is WILD 😮

It’s so weird watching the early videos of what we now see as “normal”. Seeing the “first time” people starting posting date nights vs how we see that every day and hardly bat an eye is kinda surreal