Paris Paloma - labour [Official Video]
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This song made me realise wat relationship I was in abused an hit broken back black eyes so I Hurd This last year an it made me reliwat am I doing after 5 years of pain I slowly got my belongings an takin them home bit by bit so he dint no an 5 months ago I finly walked an omg I feel so free
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Lyrics (click/tap CC to see subtitles):
Why are you hanging on
Watching this as a man, I must admit it makes me uncomfortable. Not just for the women who have had to endure this, but it makes me second guess all my own actions, and debate if any were abuse.
So tight
To the rope that I’m hanging from
To the women who are still falling for every lie and misinformation at every turn that feminism produces. No, Hedy Lamarr did not invent WiFi. This has been debunked many times.
A man invented WiFi, and your phone, the chair or bed you’re on, the house you’re in, the farmed food in your stomach — literally every privilege around you has a 98% chance it was made by men. So stop being ungrateful and trying to take credit for things women can not do.
Off this island
This was an escape plan
I heard only girls know the meaning of this whole song Ik it
Carefully timed it
So let me go
I left my ex in January. He harassed me for two months after.
And dive into the waves below
Who tends the orchards?
Beautiful accurate depiction of patriarchy ❤
Who fixes up the gables
Emotional torture
Modern women go crazy when they don’t get what they want. Even if it means putting aside morals, and even if it hurts others or society.
From the head of your high table
Who fetches the water
From the rocky mountain spring
And walk back down again
What is this 😅
To feel your words and their sharp sting
And I’m getting fucking tired
Screw him and his picket fence dreams.
The capillaries in my eyes are bursting
If our love died, would that be the worst thing?
This song is for all the women in south Asian and middle eastern countries
For somebody I thought was my saviour
You sure make me do a whole lot of labour
perpetually single side chick anthem
The calloused skin on my hands is cracking
If our love ends, would that be a bad thing?
Why aren’t women going to countries where women don’t have rights to push all this feminist stuff? Why only in countries where women are already equal? I need an explanation.
And the silence haunts our bed chamber
You make me do too much labour
*"Labour is not just a song... it is a cry and a slap in the face of every man who sees a woman’s effort as something he is entitled to. In the face of those who take without appreciation, who command without gratitude, and who consider her sacrifices a duty not even worthy of a simple thank you. To everyone who says, ‘that’s your job,’ forgetting that behind every tidy home, every cared-for child, and every soul that has been held together... there is a woman who has been silently exhausted. A woman was not created to serve, nor to carry everything alone, nor to be broken and then expected to smile. She is not a maid nor a machine working endlessly, but a human being who deserves love, respect, and appreciation. And whoever sees her effort as something she is obliged to do does not understand the meaning of respect or true manhood; because real manhood is partnership and appreciation, not exploitation and control. And whoever fails to see a woman’s worth is revealing his own lack, not hers."* ❤🩹
Apologies from my tongue
Never yours
We're free!
Busy lapping from flowing cup
And stabbing with your fork
I know you’re a smart man
And weaponise
I got away.
It seems like you can’t but you can.
Sending strength 💪🏻🫶🏻🇬🇧.
The false incompetence
It’s dominance under guise
after years of abuses and assault i finally left him
If we had a daughter
I’d watch and could not save her
being the oldest I know what it feels like the pressure to be perfect
being the second mother, first to marry and protect everyone before me
The emotional torture
From the head of your high table
Women were happier when feminism wasn’t around. This is not an opinion. This is literally a fact with sources, data, and evidence that supports it. Do you understand that? This is reality.
She’d do what you taught her
She’d meet the same cruel fate
Feminism has nothing to do with equal rights. If it did, why are they pushing it so strongly in countries where women are already more privileged than men and already have full equal rights? Why not in the countries where women don’t have rights?
So now I’ve gotta run
So I can undo this mistake
unfortunately things will only get worse for european women if the left is in power
At least I’ve gotta try
The capillaries in my eyes are bursting
men 🤝 women
having their own struggle
If our love died, would that be the worst thing?
For somebody I thought was my saviour
dont forget: being a mother IS empowering, not oppressive
You sure make me do a whole lot of labour
The calloused skin on my hands is cracking
Going through a divorce
If our love ends, would that be a bad thing?
And the silence haunts our bed chamber
The food looks immaculate tho
You make me do too much labour
All day, every day, therapist, mother, maid
If this is true, then she AND Jon need to be held accountable. I feel the same way about Franke’s husband. I didn’t watch nor do I watch any of these family channels. However she was abusing the children in those video clips I’ve seen and he allowed. He was right there for it. Abdicating your parental responsibilities doesn’t make you the good parent. Plus, Kate was the original Karen but so much hate towards her alone feels very misogynistic
Nymph then virgin, nurse then a servant
Just an appendage, live to attend him
My mother can’t leave him, court won’t let her. And I can’t do anything because I’m a teenager, and court treats us, me and my siblings,
more like property than actual children. Is there even anything i can do?
So that he never lifts a finger
24/7 baby machine
I love this song
So he can live out his picket fence dreams
It’s not an act of love if you make her
My mother wears a burqa, my father does it too, I have to wear a burqa, the burqa is this blue...
#justiceforafghanistanwomen
You make me do too much labour
Credits:
أ فغنستان في خطر
Director: Adam Othman
Producer: Giulia Lopes
Director of Photography: Theo Brinch
1st AC: Rafal Rakoczy
This song popped up when I'm feeling the rage boiling under my skin. The women in my family had to do all the work while the men want their ego stroke. My mother always turn a blind eye and gaslight her daughters to save his feelings. And the men always use the "Rule for thee but not for me" at every single thing. I've bend backwards to spare their feelings but never even put a thought in mine unless it benefits them.
Gaffer: Will Jessel
BTS: Jamal Thomas
Visiting this iconic masterpiece once again
Art Director: Paris Paloma
Art Assistant: Morgan Bull
ڪــــــن لنفسك سنداً فالجميع حڪــــــايه وتنتهي
ᵇᵉ ʸᵒᵘʳˢᵉˡᶠ ᵉᵛᵉʳʸᵒⁿᵉ ⁱˢ ᵃ ˢᵗᵒʳʸ ᵃⁿᵈ ⁱᵗ ᵉⁿᵈˢ
Actors
Paris Paloma
I dated a loser ....
Now i moved on and i FREE .
Henry Hayward
#parispaloma
Daddy issues theme song
More User Perspectives
Women don't get enough respect for their sacrifices and boundless love.
@qaliexqaliex5571this is so well written 🥺
@purplelen_This song plays in my mind when I am doing household work along with office work
@megha3452Bring an adult IS hard.
@jaycrudeThis hits hard when your brother and father a sexist is
@j9stbutterA lot of women here should look up the story of Norah Vincent — the woman who tried to live as a man for 18 months and ended up unaliving herself after realizing how much harder men’s lives are and how much she took advantage of that. Her guilt unalived her. Learn from her story.
@mojo-c1f0:58❤
@Swanika-l5cThis song reminds me of when my mom finally realized the abuse of my stepfather , packed only our dearest belongings and fled 6 hours away in the morning while he was asleep. I tried warning her for 3 years but she never listened because she was under manipulation. She met a man online who finally convinced her to run, now we are at his.
He also has anger issues. Once again, she isnt listening to me. Ive been trough this 2 times before. But this time, if he does something in the future, i wont hesitate. A kitchen knife can do wonders.
Me myself it affected me too. I thought healthy relationships are “unhealthy” and i myself was manipulated by both man and woman. I now have a boyfriend whose the opposite of all the men ive met, i’d want to marry him someday, hes incredible and has helped me so much.
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