How to Date 9s and 10s
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Having some experience and considering myself former red pill here is my (unsolicited) take:
1. Don’t call them 9-10’s: I agree, at least until after you get to know her and start dating. Main thing here is, she may look good, and she knows it, but you don’t know who she is yet. Fully spot on Later on in the relationship as you commit, you can start giving out this validation, they love this
2. Be normal. Amazing nothing to add here
3. Same as 2, fully agreed but you need to be working on yourself constantly
4. Respond back: This one, it depends. Most of the time, if she is really into you and not someone else you won’t have to do this, but some are shy. I allow myself a double text cap as in time has passed between messages, but no triple, quadruple, etc. Not just with women, with anyone. It’s on them to make the next move, ideally she should also be seeking you out.
5. Approach: Amazing, similar to 2 just be normal
6. Get to know her: I think it’s deeper than even in the video here. It’s also about showcasing you have the capacity to care for her emotionally Women love a man who understands them and can reassure them, they need to feel safe and comfortable. Instead of men trying to take advantage of them. So you need to get to know her and invest in her feelings early.
7. Believe you are worthy: Agree from confidence standpoint, go for who you want. But be open to more people as well. Not out of fear but genuine curiosity. Looks can only tell you so much about a person. Of course don’t ignore her if she looks your type and don’t force a connection with someone else out of fear, but physical attraction is only surface deep. Talk to everyone (not all at the same time and place!) and be confident.
8. Have standards: Yes, but I frame it slightly differently. If you approach someone you think is 10/10, don’t deny it, acknowledge it (internally). And then proceed anyway
My own point: Get ready for rejections. Some women will be straight mean/brutal to you, and leave you questioning your sanity. Some will tell you straight up what they don’t like about you (I really respect this). Some will take advantage. Some won’t even acknowledge you. But understand that while many men are capable of intimacy with a woman without letting their emotional guard down, at least at first, many women are not. And the stakes are generally higher for a woman if she ends up with the wrong person. If she’s not feeling you, take it on the cheek and move on, that is what you do as a man
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The vibe I'm getting from a few of these videos is to treat ALL women like they're really sweet and wholesome 5's, instead of treating them like they're gold-plated 10's. That seems to be a sensible mindset.
It's ironic that these women put in time, effort, and money to make themselves a 10, only to get avoided more than the actual 5's that never made the effort.
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0:00 Intro
Just act stupid and lost in this world.
0:17 Stop calling them 9s and 10s
0:46 Just be normal
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1:54 Be yourself
2:45 Follow up
10 does not exist boys. Not possible in reality because there's always better. There can only be 1 10 in the world at a time in reality
4:28 Play to win
5:22 Treat her like a human
In my mind, I like to think that girls do not mind dating a guy that is in their mind four points below them. If you are a five, I think you can definitely obtain a line.
Women have different attraction triggers. Obviously you would have to find a girl where it looks is not her first or even second priority. Your personality, your finances, your ability to protect and your soul. Girls would rather not have a super hot guy who is too Stimpy or boring or fake over a genuinely well rounded person.
Thank God that women operate this way because men don’t. Not all, but for the absolute majority attraction is the first priority for a man.
6:25 Believe you're worthy
7:59 Have standards
Average girls are 8.5s?
9 and 10s are rare. Finding a 9 or 10 thats lining up with those good relationship traits you listed…. Nearly…. Impossible .
More User Perspectives
I hate to read the comments of dating videos. It's full of insecure guys who are b*tching about something. Looks, the attitude of girls...
I just came to write this:
I look average. I just clicked video for fun and he exactly spits facts. I know it, because without looking at videos like this, I learned them all from first-hand experiences.
And they work. Everyone around me always asks how I pull the baddest girls they've ever seen.
When I tell the answer, they always hit me with some insecure crap. So if you feel happy by deluding yourself that it's out of your control because you don't look good, you this, you that... good. Keep staying virgin and happy😏
All BS. It’s all about looks
@Sickdragon115Nice hook
@seky_playzYes most guys see guys as just looks but a lot of women see men only as a dick and a wallet. Men sexualize multiple parts of the women. The women is just looking for the biggest baddest man to dick them down the hardest, while they have a few arm card men to cover their life style. Especially when they have learned to capitalize on their looks which most apps like tinder and ig are mainly used for prostitution by these 9-10s . All day they look at easy money for 2-5 minutes in the bed with men. Not many men have this opportunity. But some men do very well with women. I get more sex but not much more with them.
@SunsetDream-z1cBeing yourself = Act normal, Chill
@frang2026I have no time to be intimidated by good looking women. I am just totally my own regular self. The older i get the more i don't give a damn. I have more important priorities. My upmost priority is my personal freedom, my serenity and spiritual growth, my mental and physical health, financial stability, my care and love for my children, etc. I had a much younger girl that i was dating wouldn't let me go. I dumped her for my own sanity and well being. LoL. 😂
@williamsohveymah5550And believe in myself 🐈⬛
@JulioBorja-MinimalistI will love myself. 💌
@JulioBorja-MinimalistHow far with top girls and treat them like humans. 🍕
@JulioBorja-MinimalistFollowing up. ☕
@JulioBorja-MinimalistYou lost me at Donald Trump getting “the most votes in history” 😂
@davwhiskeybent1358my favorite are the 9s and 10s that think theyre 9s and 10s.... NEXT!
@rbdeboleif its good enough to call you gotta be in there raising
@rbdeboleDude, an average guy will never get a 9/10(10/10's don't exist technically). The only way for an average guy to get a 9/10 is by becoming a billionaire. Then you can "have" her in a form or ultra-expensive prostitution. But she will never love you: she will only ever love your money.
A guy of average looks and/or height will never, never ever get a supermodel girlfriend no matter what he does.
Stop selling snake oil.
The "average" girls were way hotter than the over made up clowns.
@toddplummer1187Nothing better than an average gal.
@cliff_seeMy main takeaway was stop calling them "9s or 10s"
@sepeticodesFor men if you have a horse shoe hair loss pattern [ which ages you a lot) then forget trying to get young women not a chance.
F--K balding and genetic hair loss genes! 🤬 😠 😡
moral of the video: talk to more women
@Raghav_nimbalkarrA big problem is how guys worship these girls on their social media with all the comments and compliments. Guys need to stop doing that. It only adds fuel to the fire. It is not helping.
@di650-11They smell your status and potential in a second. That matters a lot regarding reactions.
@RòbertBeliczayIm sick of these tall and handsome dating coaches, I want tips from a midget coach
@ivanstoiljkovic9455It really helps to be tall. That’s a fact.
@NewDawnFadesXThis videos 9 and 10 are attention seeking whores.
Wouldn’t give them the time of day.
I’m married to an 11. Yeah. Think Angelina Jolie or Megan Fox.
How did I ‘get’ her.
I didn’t. I was just myself from the start.
Bleach spotted sweat pants. Coffee stained t shirt. Birkenstocks with socks. In a coffee shop.
Any 9/10 woman has heard it all already. She is immune to pick up lines. Bullshit suaveness. Guys revving the engines of their Porsches etc.
A really beautiful non-whore looking woman wants a real man. They see peacocking a mile away and is an instant turn off.
They instantly see someone who is authentic. And that is way more rare than a beautiful person.
BTW. Real 9/10’s are almost always treated horribly by other women. Rude catty comments are the norm. And, believe it or not, a lot of men are rude as well because they have such a soured heart that they feel that the only way to get a beautiful woman’s attention is to be rude or crude.
Please, these so called 9 and 10s are a fire hazard. The ladies at the start look like keepers.
@GumdropLuvDragon1935The majority of these so called average girls to me are usually way better looking than them so called 9s and 10s. To me I ain’t settling when I go for a flat chested woman that’s what’s sexier to me especially if she knows a boob-job is a life alternating mistake.
@thelegendofzeldafanornerd823Who edits the videos? It’s seems inconsistent like it alternates and occasionally shows a flat chested girl (my type) when you talk of hot chicks. Do flat chested women like being called dimes?
@thelegendofzeldafanornerd8239 an 10s to me are flat chested.
@thelegendofzeldafanornerd823GO
@hrachakopyan1268If that’s average then I’m cooked 😭
@teeks4264I never thought I would agree with one of these videos but there seems to be some real advice here
@Sa3visI immediately clicked dislike and click off the video(after dropping this comment) after he said "the average girls" vs the "most girls guys are afraid to approach". You in the west are F*CKED! What standards do you have? lmao
@jbart4183Yes but if you're 'normal' won't you put YOUR guard down? 9s and 10s $hit test a lot more so if you're acting 'normal' you'll be slower to react to testing and fail it.
@zoolmanv5477Same goes for them. If you are a catch, most rejections will be self sabotage on their part
@Sp1n3cYou need to feel comfortable with 9-10s as you are around 7-8s
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