how to CONQUER university | studying, mindset, time management, friends, boys, partying and regrets
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All my uni life i never went to the club at all it was so icky, i never drank, never smoked, never did drugs, never did hook ups was in the best relationship ever which i still i am after uni and i got to have the most enjoyable university ever ❤❤
Because you know what i prioritized the most important thing SEEKING GOD AND SERVING GOD❤
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after all my experiences as a 1st yr uni student im literallyyyy screaming and crying cuz all of this was sooo true and i thought i was the only one going through it 😭. was part of this "cool big group of frnds" and istg the drama is reallll- one time their gonna gossip abt someone else with u, the next u see they r bi*ing abt you to someone aghh!!
im glad i was able to set my boundries early and quickly step away from the group. crntly have no frnds (ideal frnds) but i also dont mind cuz im busy focusing on my career and character development.
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I watch this before uni by 6 days
And thats all what i wanted to hear !
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Somehow this video feels so american even tho she has a british accent. Sad to think University is only about drinking and partying
My mission is to help young women everywhere become their BEST SELVES and create their dream life. Self-improvement and self-love transformed my life. It took me from being the shy, insecure, unmotivated girl who was always hurt by men... to being the woman who prioritises herself everyday, achieves the goals on her vision board, takes herself on dates, feels fulfilled when alone, has a newfound confidence AND has power over her dating life. I found my purpose in life after working on myself and I want to help and inspire YOU to do the same.
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How am i seeing this 2 weeks into uni (Plus foundation in the same uni)
How to achieve REAL confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_OMPKWJja8&t=599s
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I regret that I didn`t see this video on my first year of studies! I`ve just started my second year and it is awkward af to start talking to people. At the beginning of the first year people approached me and this is how I met my friends. Now, it is the second year and I am completely isolated from those friends, cuz we were placed in different groups. During the first day of the 2d year I was alone, and only when teacher said we would need to work in groups I sat to those I wanted to approach earlier but was too scared. It feels to awkward to make friends, because I`ve been seeing those people around for the whole previous year, and I didn`t talk to them whatsoever, and now, all of a sudden approach them, and say hi? On the other hand, it is not too late to start, right? I have 2 more years at the uni that I can save!
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Thank you soo much tam ❣
am literally starting uni in the next 2 weeks . i really needed these.!
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i wish i knew this in my first year, if i could go back in time this is EXACTLY what i'd tell myself. you're so insightful tam!!
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saved this vid for 2 years an dnow i'm starting uni,i cant wait
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hii Idk if someone is gonna see this cuz this video is kinda old now but I would like to talk this with someone. I haven't had a bf in my life, I'm almost finishing my degree at uni and feel bad because I feel like I'm skipping a canon event in my life. I couldn't have a partner in my teen years, and I feel that I'm gonna stay this way forever until I start acting like other girls in the sense of going with everyone who proposes me something, etc. I am not a very extroverted person; I speak with everyone, but no one looks interested in me.
What's your star sign? Libra sun, Aquarius moon and Cancer rising
What's your ethnicity? Indian Punjabi :)
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i wonder which course she did? any idea anyone
@Demon-qw7cfNgl this is the ONLY good advice on youtube on uni life 🧎♀️
Others just say the same thing over and over again
Thank you🤍
@elmareettaI am saving this for my 11 year old daughter when she goes to UNI ❤. Advice on male validation 👏🏽👏🏽👌🏽👌🏽👸👸 well done to you
@MansiRisingYou have no idea how helpful this is for me. I’m going into my first year of University in about a month and all the overthinking is starting to hit. I’ve been an overachiever all my life, so this kind of prep video was amazing. Thank you so much.
@julesMaria078My uni self : she is well dressed, well spoken well manner, her aura screams neat and elegant, she priorities Allah, her future carrer and her parents and ofc herself, she is calm, she is the topper, she knows her worth, she is surrounded by high vibrational people who aligns with her values.
@iliyasdheen3303Hey tam how were you not overwhelmed when you scored low grade
@diyapareek9730thank you so, so much 🎀it was my sign/reminder to actively define my career. thank you for sharing what you know, it has helped me so much 💛
@sophievo8315I don’t know what it’s right in your perspective. I thought it’s better to have high friendship standards but on the other hand I should be friends with as many people I want if I like them in uni? Or not
@leobol6866Wish I saw this before I got into university and now it is March 🥺 but it is not late though ☺️
@Raina-c4tI will start uni next week
And omg, I'm soooo lucky to watch this 🍓💌🍒✨️🤍🥂🫧
Honestly, This woman is a goddessss🤌🩷
@AaditiPandharpurkarTook a drop year, will be starting uni in a few months, let me get ready for it
@garimachaudhary7041Guys I am broke and I want to get a scholarship to another country and study my university there I know that's possible if any one of you know any information can help me please write it down here and thank you all ❤
@leetete1631The way I wish I had this resource in my life when I first started uni in 2012….
However I am applying for uni again as an 30-year being and I am so excited to integrate these tips when I am a uni student again.
These uni videos are so helpful.
@shrutijain_8888no better way to define uni than "a big love island" lmaoooooooo
@ismalaz24watching this on my 2nd day of uni and this is so helpful!! thank you tam <3
@shaoni888🎯 Key points for quick navigation:
00:00:00 🎓 University mindset and confidence
- Emphasizes the importance of mindset and confidence before starting university.
- Steps to cultivate confidence: creating an alter ego, pushing through discomfort, taking initiative.
- Highlights the need for discipline and proactive approach in university life.
01:58 🌟 Overcoming lack of motivation and setting routines
- Discusses the challenges of transitioning from high school to university.
- Importance of setting and sticking to routines for academic success.
- Personal example of maintaining discipline to manage busy university life effectively.
04:00 💔 Dealing with mistakes and personal growth
- Acknowledges the inevitability of making mistakes during university years.
- Encourages self-compassion and learning from errors to grow personally.
- Reflects on personal experiences and transformative lessons learned.
05:08 🤝 Navigating social interactions with confidence
- Advises overcoming social anxieties by taking initiative in social settings.
- Challenges perceptions about social interactions and self-confidence.
- Empowers individuals to initiate conversations and build meaningful relationships.
06:33 🚫 Avoiding pitfalls of seeking male validation
- Warns against seeking validation through casual relationships in university.
- Emphasizes self-worth and independence over seeking external validation.
- Shares personal growth journey towards self-reliance and setting high standards.
08:38 🧠 Prioritizing mental health in university
- Stresses the importance of maintaining mental health during university life.
- Advocates for accessible resources like therapy through platforms like BetterHelp.
- Shares personal experiences and insights on managing mental well-being.
08:52 🎭 Navigating friendships, relationships, and drama
- Offers strategies for forming meaningful friendships based on shared values.
- Advises on avoiding drama and maintaining positive social interactions.
- Provides insights on managing relationships and setting boundaries in university.
15:12 💸 Setting up a balanced lifestyle: budgeting and social life
- Discusses practical tips for budgeting and managing finances in university.
- Advises on responsible alcohol consumption and navigating social pressures.
- Shares insights on maintaining balance between academic and social life.
17:06 🎉 Lifestyle in University: Balancing Social Life and Self-Care
- Balancing social activities and academic responsibilities is key in university life.
- Prioritize self-care routines like exercise and healthy eating to maintain mental and physical well-being.
- Explore opportunities and enjoy solo activities to avoid feeling isolated and make the most of university life.
19:13 📉 Budgeting in University: Practical Tips to Save Money
- Create a meal plan and stick to a grocery list to manage expenses effectively.
- Prioritize spending on essentials like food and social activities while cutting unnecessary costs.
- Opt for affordable alternatives and avoid overspending to maintain financial stability.
21:07 📚 Academic Success Strategies: Efficient Study Techniques
- Understand the structure of each module and tailor your study approach accordingly.
- Surround yourself with motivated peers to enhance productivity and focus.
- Master time management using digital calendars to allocate time for studies, social activities, and personal development.
27:15 📝 Homework for Success: Implementing Strategies for University Life
- Define your ideal university persona and plan accordingly to integrate seamlessly into university life.
- Establish a consistent schedule using digital tools to stay organized and efficient.
- Engage in extracurricular activities, join societies, and pursue certifications relevant to your career goals.
Hi Tam!! I am about to start uni in a month and I'm so glad that i found this video of yours. I was so scared about uni but after watching your video i feel so much better already, i will be implementing all your advice for sure. You are amazing and a true life saver. Love you lots💕❤️
@NikitaJ78Wow this has reduced my pressure of comparing myself to people,yes I'm a uni student,i can paint my own nails,i.can cook food and stop spending money on things that are above my level.
Thank you for this video.
Thank you so much P' Tam, P' (Pi) in Thai means sis or bro. Sending love from Thailand💕💕
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@fatitouu-tu9ygGurllll, why didn't I stumble upon your channel two years ago? My life would've been a breeze!
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@samridhisingh0120anyone watching in 2024?
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