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dear diary

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How To Become That Girl EVERYONE Talks About ✨

Video Overview & Insights

In this video, I break down exactly how to become that girl. From how she looks, to how she makes friends, to how she stays on top of her grades without sacrificing her life.

Hi guys I'm back 🤍

— @dearxdiary

No unrealistic routines.

No 5am nonsense.

As an introvert thank you big sister 😭

— @Jayleennthebean

Just real changes that actually work.

If you’re ready to stop watching her… and become her, this is for you.

I am on vacation but I'm her now

— @stherlythelemaque1951

✨ Comment “I’m her now” if you’re locking in.

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I'm her now

— @melissaademi10

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I am her now❤

— @ajaygupta-qf3dr

TIMESTAMPS:

Intro: 0:00-0:50

GIRL ASKING A QUESTION IS TERRIFYING!

— @official_f3et

Looks: 0:51-2:40

Popularity: 2:41-4:41

I mean I am her now

— @anjanadevi7992

Grades: 4:42-7:26

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O am jet now

— @anjanadevi7992

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On school days I sleep at night weekend morning ☀️☕

— @Nikhilyt54

More User Perspectives

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5:54 I already get good grades

@Strawless-m3o
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I’m her now

@cupidity_hopez
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Honestly u don’t need popularity all you need to do is actually take care of yourself (e.g. skin,hair,nails,etc) Not only that but it’s important to take notes in class so you can remember and study those notes in case if u have a test. 

Helping people even for small things like (e.g. maybe someone dropped something like a pencil or smt) offering to help someone can a) make you and that person feel good or… b) start an open conversation!🥳 If you see that someone needs help and you really want to help just do it or ask there’s no issue!🥳🥳🥳🥰🥰

Also for those of ya’ll saying “IM SO UGLY I WISH I WAS PRETTY” 😭Instead of wishing to be pretty start with using a gentle cleanser(btw if u have sensitive skin then use a cleanser specifically for sensitive skin) then use a toner that gentle on your skin( if ur 12 or older then its optional🧐, I don’t use toner my skin but whatever) when ur done use any moisturizer you have that’s good for ur skin barrier(if ur 12 or up then Bubble skincare,Cerave, or even Aveeno are all good skincare brands and they’re safe to use!😊) Then finally use sunscreen so you don’t get hyperpigmentation and you’re all good!👍🏾

Remember it’s not just about looking good it’s about feeling good and ready to go everyday even if u have to sit on them musty dusty chairs at school or at work lol…💀💀💀

But all jokes aside if this helps you then leave a comment! Hugs anyone?🫂

@Millertime_12
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I didn’t study and I got an 18/20💀💀

@AFAM-bz8sc
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I was the fastest writer in class
When I wrote 14 sentences in 5 min everyone was talking about me😂😂😂 I’m not kidding!

@AFAM-bz8sc
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Please i love your videaos alot they actually helo me thank u alottt

@NihalGornas-e9r
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I'm her now

@OneLoneTherian
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Can you do how to be like tomie please?

@Cherry_cake144
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Im a kid

@hannalara0507
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I am that girl with a mushroom head 🍄‍🟫🍄

@RoseCheng-e2z
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chapter 1: looks ★
- HAIRCARE: u dont need a full hair routine, normally u need a shampoo, conditioner, hair oil, scalp oil, leave in conditioner & a satin pillowcase + remember to shower what fits ur schedule, example: tuesday, thursday & sunday (SHOWER AT NIGHT PLEASE!!)

- SKINCARE: same with haircare, normally u need a cleanser, spf, moisturizer, toner & a serum + remember to wear a face mask 1x a week & buy pimple patches when u get pimples

- MAKEUP: make it simple and not heavy. normally u need a concealer, bronzer, cream blush, highlighter, mascara, lash curler, brow gel, beauty blender & some brushes + dont sleep with makeup on or shower with makeup on!

- SMELL GOOD: normally i love the scents that are floral or vanilla. u need body scrub, shower, loofah, lotion, body mist, (maybe) perfume & a soap bar + and deodorant & deodorant dry spray

- HAND CARE: have some hand cream so ur hands arent dry, that ruins the feat. remember to wash ur nails & behind ur nails aswell

- LIP CARE: remember to use vaseline/nivea or carmex for ur lips + for a lip combo use a lipbalm/lip gloss and a lip liner, depends if lip liner looks good on u

chapter 2: popularity
- ACT: act kind, smile and do simple eye contact. talk to ppl, get friends, give atleast 10 compliments. not the same 10 compliments every day, look at them and think what would make them smile + GIVE 10 COMPLIMENTS TO 10 DIFFERENT PEOPLE even strangers, friends or ppl u know

- DRAMA: dont cause drama and dont try to interfere. best tip ever!

chapter 3: grades
- studying: study for 1-2 hrs, not 10hrs cause thats just unhealthy. study a subject ur struggling with or something ur interested in. + do every subject, not every day every subject but atleast studying everyday and do one subject a study session a day.

- STRESS: dont stress, u can ask ppl for help but try to help urself as well and not ask every 5 secs.

@LuvlyCelestee
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I know the biggest lie ever the biggest lie is Michael Jackson is bad at singing say that if you want to lie

@Freyashere
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I’m the one that loves capybaras Every body is like ‘’the one that loves capybaras’’

@vvzz888
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You should know to not change ur self for anyone, just be ur self.

@Leinatotto
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3:18 absolutely yes i am doing this

@DialaMohamed-w1i
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0:14 i am built dEfRiEnT 🗿🗿

@DialaMohamed-w1i
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I where. Hijab 🧕 😭😭

@AleenaAiash
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You should shower at night because then it washes off everything that you have gone through and in the day because like yes you get dirt and oil and all that yucky stuff on you so you’re gonna wanna watch it off at night. Also it helps with relaxing like if you go to bed and you’ve just took a hot shower. It’s actually scientifically proven that taking a hot shower for relaxes you so yeah.

@valeriejones3912
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The realness in this video😭🤌🏻

@Unforgettxble_editz
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the fanchant!!!!!!!!
edit😭sorry I was watching do the danceeeee

@Noraplaysrblx-1
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my tips are, stay focused inclass, dont be scared to talk, and dont. act nervous! thats how i became known in the whole grade :)

@JesiMacahia
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2:32 IM CRINE I ACCIDENTALLY PAUSED HERE

@MisoXchae
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In 3 grade I walked in and heads turned only towards me. Thank you dearxdiary for help.

@gracemareethompson9259
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I t works 😮😊😊😊😊

@BLINK_12-m2l
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Is it just me but i only have two TRUE friends..

@Sumsum_love
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i love how you add random funny clips troughout the video 😭🥹 also your videos really helped me ! ive made 3 more friends over this month!

@sophiasoupp
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Thank you ❤

@calistalovecookies
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I’m her now 💗

@EllaLoh
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i need to work on my social life like im the dust on the floor at schoo;

@Lailaexz
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I will do it for next year because school is almost over so it doesn't count

@SBC-d9r
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Thanks🍓🎀

@SweetKittyCloud
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But the thing is our school is so strict that they dont allow us to have a out hair in any way no bangs no hair down we have to put our hair in a normal pony braid nothing deferent if there os wven one peoce of bang out than u have to fox it or else the teachers will get rlly mad

@VIYENART
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The main problem is the whole grade is weird and they are not my type...

@dti_mimii
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My school makes us do two braids with ribbons 😭😭

@TanveerSandhu-n6w
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i personally am not friends with everyone because some people be fake

@JimmieHawkins-po5cn
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I’m her now

@Progamer17yay
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Guys l am popular only a little in my classbecause my mom work as a business manager😅

@bophachin4021
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1:27 This is so real my history teacher used to ALWAYS call ne out in front of the whole class and tell me to put on some vesline because I used to have chapped and bleeding lips everytime😭

@Moontahi0612
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00:00 I HAVE NEVER SEEN A GIRL LIKE THAT IN MY SCHOOL LIFE EVERR LOL

@AdvaitaKhanna
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You changed my life from getting bullied to being the bullies bestie and making her kinddd

@CLOV3R-i9u
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Ahh this video made me understand I am that girl cuz this is what I do and it's my first time watching this vid and I'm living others dream life funny how that works but I am def not a middle bencher I love sitting at the back it's so fun I can't explain it lol

@Krisha-md8ss