Divorce Lawyer Reveals #1 Life Hack Every Man NEEDS!
Video Overview & Insights
James Sexton explains why most marriages do not end because of one dramatic betrayal, but because of small moments of slippage that build up over time. Drawing on decades as one of America’s top divorce lawyers, he reveals why couples “lose the plot” long before they ever say the word divorce.
He breaks down the hidden warning signs that relationships are drifting apart, why people avoid difficult conversations, and how tiny disconnections quietly become the real marriage killers. James also shares a simple weekly ritual that can transform a relationship, how to talk about problems without triggering defensiveness, and why most people secretly fear they are not worthy of love.
This conversation exposes the brutal truth about why relationships fail and what you must do now to stop it from happening to you.
I would say it's the opposite, if she really knew me she'd love me more.
Discover:
• The real reason most couples eventually divorce
I think the most fundamental fear is that we are stuck in a relationship where our love is wasted, ie our love is not valued, not taken seriously, not even wanted.
• What “slippage” is and why it destroys marriages
• How small disconnections become big breakups
Great info but this guys voice is too high pitched. I have to watch it in 2 parts 😂
• The one weekly ritual that strengthens love
• Why fear of not being worthy sabotages relationships
Why do all divorce lawyers look like they are fresh out of rehab and on the edge?
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I told my to be wife now. That I wasn’t going to kneel when I asked the question will you marry me. She had no problem with that. No where in the Bible does it say a man should kneel to ask a woman to wear the pants. Love my wife . I am the head of the house. And she is my number 1# priority.
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Love his advice. But, at the risk of stating the obvious, both people in the relationship need to be committed to “doing the work.” Otherwise you’re simply wasting your breath.
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@danielmedina1136Accurate x 1,000,000
@gamota4523Mr Sexton is the next best thing now..
@FiegAro2726Pick 3 things you like about your partner a week …….and they should be different every week???…………this guy is high
@bigbabyjesussurfingIt’s unbelievable to me to this day that we put this much effort into a relationship for the fear of being alone.
@adolfoustarezMah men in suit taking it seriously and bro in a tshirt 😂😢
@ImanAIthingI'm fascinated with the obession of forcing a failing/failed relationship "to work".
You/I gotta go - and that's a good, healthy thing.
Bye.
LOL, no suit for buddy, I guess he doesnt take it seriously, except taking YOUR MONEY hehheheheh
@acanadianineurope814He’s so tired of making money off misery that he’s trying to give something back. I respect that.
@Sean-gq6vjNever sign a contract we’re only one person benefits and whom also planned their divorce the same time they plan their wedding ….. women 👎🏿
@TroyBancroftCrazy how it's the people who come face-to-face with the real ugliness of life that everyday people deal with that have such profound wisdom
@JamesSlater-s6pHe's right. People really will avoid temporary pain over long term gains. Being Comfortable is a trap.
@spartan114mWow
@darkelflinDude is a simp. Who is you? Stay strong my kings.
@MrMcguffin007To those that say- then why did he get divorced?
Great Coaches aren’t always Great players. Just because he’s great at explaining marriage maintenance, doesn’t mean he would be a great partner himself.
I have 180º approach. Its called dont talk about it, reflect, then be kinder/more valueable.
@Listhp1337helpful tips here,thankyou
@faithpotatoMake a new law, if the women initiates divorce, the man has the right to refuse alimony unless the man cheats. If the women cheats, she gets no alimony. This protects marriage itself so we have more nuclear families and kids are raised with both parents.
@Tony_KakuThank you
@privacyghostThe western societies made a joke out of marriage-people divorce and separate for very trivial reasons
@BogdanTora-s6dBrilliant take!
@TravisSchaeffer-pk4dbTake the financial benefit away from women in divorce and advantages from the family courts, then see the changes.
@openwater4897I was slipping and so was my wife. The raindrops hit hard. After the near flood, I looked at her perspective and she did mine. Put the phone down, put other things in life down, because all that truly mattered to me in the end was my wife and family. We've managed to course the ship and our love feels reignited and strong again. The sex great like it was in the very beginning. We are paying attention to each other, talking and listening. The comparison of how slippages happen before and after marriage couldn't be more true. If you can self reflect and catch it before the point of no return its possible to save. I could relate to almost everything he said. It really does make a difference. Pay attention to each other and try not to let things escalte, try to see things from each others perspective. Sending positive energy out to anyone who needs to hear it.
@daniel7212221:21 😢 quite literally me. probably the single most reason i self sabotage in relationships
@itravezyThis lawyer is cooking man
@kirodarkpaw2966What I understood from this is that we have to always cater to the woman, bow down and always make it about her, and if God she's going to hit the self-destruct button and take everyone down with her, got it.
@UncleSarkisI thought I meet my person basically the same as me I did everything for us then something happened and she left. Married 6 months before one day I love you the next I'm leaving. They're all the same they have no courage no balance no loyalty.
@PeterLaFontaine-h8beven with al this, crazy is will still be crazy
@BrokeAgainWe had to graduate school with good grades to find a good job , the real problem is that many people are not smart enough to handle relationships, everyone thinks they are right even after making the dumbest decisions or mistakes , if you’re not smart marriage is not for you , if you are smart please find someone smart …
@mati-7204What of if you state what you need and your partner just ignores your needs on purpose?
@blaizeMariai4534He's a great talker but none of these solutions are effective
@DT-wh4qrMost couples don't put so much thought in their relationship
@DT-wh4qrI don't understand what losing the plot means? Dopamine is not going to be elevated forever. This constant dependence on your partner erodes the relationship.
@DT-wh4qrBeen wishing my wife would go away for years Lol. I want to know the secret of how so many men get their wives to leave
@brianm5563Videos like this was so helpful to me on my journey of bringing back my husband , to think by this exact same time last year, he left me, and after a period of no contact, i reached out to him and it still didn't work, but then again, i was introduced to a wonderful lady, Gabriela Blanca Lopez , who is a certified spiritual therapist, with her help ,i was able to get him back, and for over a year now, it has been smooth sailing. fellas, if you love her, do not give up on her, show her and act on it, you are not a simp for going all out for the one you love. xx
@GretaNancyPlaying with emotions? Thats his job? I thought law was supposed to be about the law?
@TimFoilHat777Holy incredibly insightful shit, Batman!
@RayBugBDCI have been a trial lawyer for 37 years. This guy really understands something that many in my world do not. Emotional intelligence is a critical element of being an effective trial lawyer and he is one of the best I have seen.
@1largelawNever Ever , Never ever , ever get on your knees for a woman. Absolutely never. A woman gets down on their knees for a man. Society has brainwashed your heads to keep both the woman and the man confused and eating from their economic hand. Wake up sheep 🐑
@GilCoOliIt’s not just the tattoos and piercings. It’s the emotional damage and trauma that comes with them.
@tomski1111If you flip your mindset to embrace pain, embrace the suck (David Goggins I am looking at you), you can do unbelievable things. Let pain rule you and you are as predictable as sheep.
@heathbecker420Mr. Sexton is legit brilliant.
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