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I think you compare things, that cannot be compared. England and China today and 30 or 40 years ago were completely different. The social insurance system were and are completely different. You can say that the situation is going to reverse. Parents in Europe are probably better than their children will be in 20 years. In China children in their 30ies are much better than their parents were. So of course old people in China need the support of their children in their 30. I know very well how was China in the 90ies and I have seen how people worked and what they could earn. Your parents as paesants could have a pension of about 300 to 400 Yuan per month. I think it is obvious that the expectations are different from a good pension in England. It is not about love it is about needs.

Laoshi I learned a lot from you , you are great and I really appreciate your hardwork ❤

You look so cold. I hope you recover quickly from your illness. 😰

Very nice topic , i like so much , , we want approval from our parents 😢,may be we shoul not prove theme nothing ,not possible to change...

Very nice topic , i like so much , , we want approval from our parents 😢,may be we shoul not prove theme nothing ,not possible to change...

Such an interesting conversation! Thanks for the lovely video!

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我觉得我们应该试一试有无条件的爱，但是就是非常难。在我的生活里我看到了只有一个比如无条件的爱。就是耶稣基督的爱对所有的人。在我们得罪他的时候仍然爱我们。现在他还想要跟我们一起有关系。他的爱就是最真的爱我找到了。

我学习中文在斯里兰卡。

对我来说， 没有无条件的爱， 不过， 我认为妈妈对我的爱是无条件的

у меня много вопросов касаемо того почему вы часто используете более книжные слова, а не разговорные ,
Зависит ли это от того что вы учитель и общаетесь , не на улице?
вопрос касается слов таких как
无论 绝对 无条件 и т.д.

both are cute. very cute.

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我也停止和父母争吵了，但原因和你不一样。我意识到，他们所做的是他们认为最好的。我意识到，他们所做的是他们认为最好的。我开始更多地关注动机，而不是结果。当我开始这样做的时候，他们也自然地改变了。

good podcadt

Am I the only one facing a problem loading the subtitles?

对我来说，有条件的爱是客观存在的。正是因为有条件的存在，人才会更加珍惜彼此的关系，并且不断努力提升自己。如果我们都持有这样的看法，就会更加认真地对待工作和学习。相反，如果爱没有任何条件，人们往往容易产生依赖心理，缺乏进步的动力。

Do you upload this video on any platform other than YouTube? The subtitles aren’t showing up on YouTube.

我觉得如果我爱上了人，我没办法不爱他了。 可能我的爱会改变，可能会又爱又讨厌。 但是我永远还是会爱他

无条件的爱真的存在！

不 是 我 们 爱 神 ， 乃 是 神 爱 我 们 ， 差 他 的 儿 子 为 我 们 的 罪 作 了 挽 回 祭 ， 这 就 是 爱 了 。
約 翰 一 書
4:10


人 为 朋 友 舍 命 ， 人 的 爱 心 没 有 比 这 个 大 的 。
約 翰 福 音
15:13


神 爱 世 人 ， 甚 至 将 他 的 独 生 子 赐 给 他 们 ， 叫 一 切 信 他 的 ， 不 至 灭 亡 ， 反 得 永 生 。
約 翰 福 音
3:16

无条件的爱存在！我超级爱我孩子，无论发生什么我永远是爱他们的！

Make long videos like this

我随便刷到这播客，说真的这个话题直接就让我关注了

1:50 ”我的妈妈她没有文化”

这么话太搞笑了哈哈哈
在英文上这样说，这就让你听起来像傲慢的

我管她 means I don't care about her?

这些视频特别有利

七七八八的東西🤔

Suqing: I DISAGREE!!!!!!!!😆😘😤

Lov eit!!!

一切照旧完美话题，内容很高质，谢谢你们❤️❤️❤️

我非常喜欢这个视频的话题，谢谢你们 🙏

我对我儿子是无条件的爱。当然我希望他也爱我，可是就算他不爱我那么多，我也无条件的爱他。

I think as long as we don't put too much expectation when we are doing something for others, no matter if it's about how they would respond or whether they would do something else in return later, we will be fine. It's easier said than done for many of us, but it's possible.

I used to really hate it when my parents say something like “for your own good" to force us doing what they want, not what we want. But I finally realized they did it because that was the way they were raised, and they repeated it unintentionally. As Suqing mentioned, if someone cannot love themselves unconditionally, there's no way for them to do it for someone else, even if someone else is their kids. I also agree with Ahui that we cannot deny our parents' love because it's conditional. Just because someone else doesn't love us the way we want, it doesn't mean they don't love us. However, if you decide to have kids, you should be aware that the way they perceive your love will be the core impact on how your kids define their self-worth and direct their love life later.

我非常喜歡你們的頻道。聽你們說話，我沒感覺我在學中文，只是我在聽朋友分享。從你們的分享中，我竟然會認識新詞語，也很自然接受新想法。對我來說，學新的語言就是像有新的眼光，讓自己的想法更開放更自由。因此非常感謝你們。

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我也无条件爱自己。我会一直陪着自己，所以我觉得我跟自己的关系因该一直很好，也应该对自己很好。但是，这并不原味着我不想自己变得更好。

你的裤子很大

Suqing 老师，我真的喜欢你的这个podcast. 帮我提高我的中文听力。然后这个话题也很有意思🎉

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我觉得在这个世界上没有爱情，因为如果你做错了连你妈妈都不会爱你

不错！