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Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, answers the internet's burning questions about love. How does attraction work? Can you love someone and still cheat on them? Is there such a thing as a soulmate? Dr. Fisher answers all these questions and much more!
@keith'smendedlightforgivenesandidolatry i forgiven that so much that my times here would ne how to enjoy with advices and more educational videos to sent to my teachwers in group chats and i thank that so much and more, i thank that so much to forgive about the bad thibgs i said to others so much and i thank that about me, and i thank that i enjoyed you guys so much even when i would educatedlyy purposely do that to myself and i thank that so muich for being some kind of happiness and more and i forgiven then how much that would be about me.
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when I use dating apps, I like a few profiles. the first guy that bothers and i like him back, i arrange a meet up in about 2 days. then I stop messaging but only focus on them (in real time). I don't speak to loads of people at once
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It's interesting how many commenters with little relevant education are certain their preconceived biases are right and someone with this presenters background is wrong. That's love I guess...
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You can absolutely have multiple soulmates simultaneously. Romantic, platonic, familial, animal. The heart has more than one chamber.
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Korea's Stray Kids mentioned?! 😮
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I disagree with a lot of what she said.
* If you're first dating, I would start by trying to see the bad in people. There are so many people out there, that it will be hard to find a truly great match with a low number of exposures to different people. You should try to get exposure to as many as possible. Once you find a good fit, that is when you should focus on the positive, but if you start off by identifying a bunch of compromises you'll have to make then you will just find more later on and it will feel like too much over time
* It is impossible to cheat on someone if you truly love them. Love and cheating are incompatible. If you love someone then you never have to choose not to cheat on someone because it wouldn't be an option in the first place.
delusional - pair bonding is the pattern after thousands of years of abrahamic patriarchy its not biological its inherited oppression
@Sociology_Tubedying for Her would be useless pointless... but i ll do it
@hassanhdez7944:11 Hank Moody's question :D
@ΠάβελΠαύλωφI would not call it love at first sight I could call it attraction at first sight 😅
@anabernardo82Great video.
@VolgaCanKayaI have always liked what Dr Helen Fisher has to say. I have been aware of her for a few decades. She has been featured on science television shows well before Youtube and such on the internet were in existence.
On this video I find it very interesting at 6:02 when she talks about the characteristics of the testosterone based hormone system (women have some testosterone also, just not as much): they are analytical, logical, direct, decisive, good at STEM fields, and music- music is very structural. And they are attracted to opposite hormone types rather than like their own. Some of those other hormone types are attracted to the same type she said just prior.
Fascinating (as Spock would say). Much of this hormone category characteristics helps explain so many things in human interactions.
For instance in a heterosexual relationship, when a woman goes on talking about a problem they're facing, and on and on, men eventually want to offer possible solutions to that problem or situation. And then the woman may get upset saying why can't you just listen? Because when men care about you and you're troubled, they want to help. Men are wired to solve problems and fix things, that's what we do.
If a woman just wants to vent her emotions, that is what female friends or relatives are for. And even then they might eventually offer advice. If you want no feedback, vent to your pet, a dog or cat. They won't try and solve or give you feedback.
Who is the idiot who edited this
@samarfirdaus1206I can have multiple soulmates in life
@RebelLiberation-t6ethe choice thing i agree with , when i got out of a relationship that was long term two years later i still have no even chose a date at all and i keep being asked and too many ask .. saw too many replies on dating sites and i just couldnt take it so i said no to all
@samanthaabel1079The play part at the end was really wholesome. Of course I want someone to play with! That would be awesome
@PurpialThought of people who are aromatic?
@catlegs8575she is not reading the questions properly lol
@SA-ng8miwith respect, this is a load of bollocks
@mixloadThis is so eye opening, I wish I could’ve seen this years ago. I love her way of speaking, it’s very professional and concise.
@lilyhalter8443Wow. She had some very straightforward answers to a lot of timeless, ethereal questions.
@BoatingWithDadI’m curious how many people here relate to this but never talk about it
@GotitClearSystematicMoney. Have lots of money. Divorce is imminent.
@Icanfigureitoutintime9 person theory - wow
@aartikelkar397Well, we know she cheated.
@FoxSleepingYou have a gift for explaining things clearly!
@CaeyuFaryiDo I believe I’ve met a special person yesss ❤❤ just time will tell !! 😊
@carolinebray827:57 I have to disagree with this one. In my experience, this part of the brain does not exist for all people.
@Vmt16Love,love,love.....love,love,love
@dad_jokes_4ever2262:45 STRAYKIDS MENTIONED other than that this video was so insightful! Thank you ma’am ❤
@naoiz_sgShe’s amazing!!🤩
@greenmantis251Five to 9 options? Sounds about right. This is why I go into clothing stores with a limited palette. My monkey brain just gets overloaded by shopping.
@NumNumbat2 Timothy 2:11 It is a faithful saying: For if we be dead with him, we shall also live with him:
@Testimony405For me intellectual attraction comes first😢
@Mahrooshay5:30 good god the swerve into pseudoscience
@IndecirphrusI love this woman! She explains everything clearly but keeps it interesting. Human biology has always interested me and I love to learn more. Also, Stray Kids mention at 2:52 LOL
@summerlovesratsPlease wired can you bring a sociologist , it would be fantastic 🙏.
@malikbouchama73903:04 YO SKZ MENTIONED OMG
@borrowedfaceKabir?
@beyond2535And this is mainly for the people on the honeymoon stage
People that have been together more than 10 years don’t feel none of that
God knew that adultery would be big
So in the 10 Commandments, God brought up adultery twice
Does anyone know the name of the Giotto painting she mentioned
@brinleybaker9113the love which kabir was talking about was with the truth.
@hardik1mehta"why do people associate love with the heart" I would replied it's because heart is the first organ who starts to hurt so much when you break up w someone....
@anastasiawentaizy32092:50 ahhhh STAY！！
@sukxnaNothing's clicking. I swear nothing
@iamzekee-g7bLady, you are incredible.
thank you so much for you straight forward approach
R.I.P. Dr... thanks so much
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