8 Gentleman Rules YOUR DAD Should Have Taught You
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I was never taught anything by my father,he was a drug addict. We grew up white trash and poor so I was never given any of this advice because none of the men in our family had any experience with these things themselves. I want to be better though I want to be more .
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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
I don't have to think what to wear my girlfriend dresses me.
0:43 Rule 1
1:45 Rule 2
glad that my father taught all of them to me
3:22 Rule 3
5:22 Rule 4
Shit your pants at the dinner table to establish masculine dominance
6:43 Rule 5
7:37 Rule 6
8:17 sorry mate, you're mincing.... way too relaxed for me... back straighter, head higher, arms straighter, eyes scanning.
8:26 Rule 7
9:28 Rule 8
I like pocket watches myself, closed face to protect it from scratches from change, keys, or sundry.
More User Perspectives
Jimmy that drink with really nice you push twatt. Best wishes from an old Yorkshiremen ๐
@kevindutton1691I really love your advices, but I think you are missing one: Learn how to cook a decent meal.
@krumlundWell said at the end, Sir! [amended: Well said all the way through, and especially poignant at the end.]
@Spur1DenmarkCatching up on your videos and enjoying them as I do. I was recently told that a Manhattan is traditionally served in a chilled coupe glass or martini glass. I noticed you used a lowball glass, which is what I prefer. Do you have a preference based on the occasion?
@jamesweigh3178Fathrelessness has become the norm today.
@robertblake9892Notice how boys and men are always told to be gentlemen, but girls and women are never told to be ladies? That's why men are fed up with women and more and more women end up being lonely, misandrist cat owners.
@moreflexmoresex3011Mid video, things we already know.
@preetinderjitsingh429Turns out I had an excellent father, but I already knew that!
@johnmccracken3473Dapper Dan https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4hni4OIJXG4
@jpaulgetty899865 year old man here. Dress well. Use skin care. Keep the Alcohol to a minimum or avoid altogether. Especially if you work out. Alcohol will reduce your gains.
Regarding watches, vintage watches can bring something unique to your style.
My Dad taught me how to smoke cigarettes. We are menโs men, no B.S. ๐ฌ
@Laotre-c8vHe applies his face wash while wearing his jacket and tie?
@SiebenbuergerSxnWonderful advice. Particularly, Rule No. 8.
Thank you!
Public answer to secret question: Fireflies by Owl City.
@waziotterI have no dad I learned things by myself
@fazeyyy_010All men should learn to smoke.
@KellyDunlap-t1kI dont know if the the Andrew Tates and Carey Grants are going to be what the world needs in the future. Probably needs Dementus and Immortan Joe.
@LusitanianSteamShovelIf you send someone a picture of private parts, use some from the internet. If you end up in court, your real parts will be at variance and thou shalt walk free of the magistrate and the judge. Huzzah!!!
@LusitanianSteamShovelI have no misgivings about your character now that I have seen your Bauhaus prints on the wall. Excellent. A modern gentleman.
@LusitanianSteamShovel1:21 possibly the most stylish gentleman on the planet, more so than Bowie even...
Ive always felt that Ferry led with gentleman and had a touch of arty, where as Bowie was the other way round
both so effortlessly cool though
I would suggest drinking my Manhattan without the `swizzle` stick .
@jamesmay8434Concur on retention of your privacy. Know your station, such as never outdress your role at a function. Certainly, have style. Refrain from that style being one of one-upmanship. Learn to move and talk slowly. Only those who lack self control, which is everyone at some point, fail in this.
@FastEddy396Very good video..
@RaulHeinemanni havent worn a suit since i was a teen. i have never worn a watch and i dont carry a wallet.
@tomh1593Advice 2. I never thought I'd live to see the day when people would need to hear that ๐ฑ
@robertyoshimaru9410I have one question from Rule 7; what is your take on long hair? Are they good choice?
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@lexluthor0000I didn't watch this to find out what my dad didn't teach me. I watched this to find out what I should teach my son.
@Avigdor404Only thing the guy who raised me was donโt use a 15โ knife at the dinner table, especially at the restaurant, now itโs only a 6โ KTM spear point ๐
@afghanyetimy dad's a cheater, aint no gentleman! not many young men today grow up with a loyal father around!
@T-HazzaIn a world of Andrew Tates, by a Cary Grant.
@sadarax4405Iโmโฆ a bit into middle ageโฆ was an adolescent and teenager in the 1980s.. and my father taught me many of these lessons. Given the era, we never had a skin care conversation, or a sexting conversation (though he would never have needed to, as my judgment was never that flawed).
My father was a Yalie, a naval officer, and an architect, so I got the majority of the lessons early on. Needless to say, he taught me to tie a tie, and also taught me to tie a bow tie at the age of 15.
Perhaps most importantly, decades before the phrase โno means noโ, my father explicitly talked to me about how to be a gentleman with girls/women. That was virtually unheard of in that era, but such was the character of my fatherโฆ an officer and a gentleman.
I'm very very lucky to have a dad who has taught me all of this, and much more
@HarithhJsudassFor your rule 7. Here is the funny part. Cutting hair was considered unpopular, and girls found overgrown hair, attractive?
@ThePhoenixCAPT97Haircut and hairstyle is a huge problem in the USA. As a hairstyle and a gentleman, I am feel I am living in a horror movie of total ugliness. Cheap and ghetto haircuts, face full of pimples or acne, unplesent clothes and extremely auful ans stinky cheap colognes. Those things make a person look understated in looks, beauty, and undesirable
@arkadiananian1735Regarding suits on wedding, I have another suggestion. Ask the hosts in advance what to wear.๐
@arkadiananian1735Amen! Watches, how important it could be to have a nice timepiece. ๐ I have a nice collection of those!
@arkadiananian1735Amen on the timepiece. Omega in this house.
@AndyManilowManners Maketh Man.
@avipatableJames, not one of my three handsome sons would be caught dead wearing an Apple type watch. By the way I just love your apartment.
@AmyWebster-u6lAny classic watches under 50$? Like 5000โน
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