15 Warning Signs Your Marriage is Over

This is the most toxic nonsense I’ve ever heard in my life. Eat glass.

Very first sign...she stops initiating bjs

My wife spent 42 years of marriage plotting for her divorce. I spent the 42 years being a mostly good husband. I’m not claiming perfection, I was just commited. The steps are real. Exactly what happened to me! She claimed “female problems” and I agreed to not ask for sex anymore. She was cheating at that point. I was a fool.
She became more and more abusive. Another rule is: abuse always escalates.

And than they start petty arguments to get angry and justify leaving.. mine did that and I haven’t heard from her in 4 years 😂

Is it bad that i'm the one who is suggesting everything like this

IT NEVER HAPPENS OUT OF THE BLUE.... 🙄... And usually that poor sap that poor guy that you're playing violins for lead himself and his wife right into the end of the relationship and the destruction of the trust and the relationship because even if there wasn't any cheating or anything like that he didn't listen to her he blew her off he told her to shut up he told her listen I got you these things just be quiet be happy over there and be at peace and don't bother me I don't want to be involved in anything you got going on that could improve our relationship I don't care and then they sit there and cry about how it came out of nowhere 🤣... It never comes out of nowhere you see it coming you just don't want to acknowledge it you don't want to accept it and then when she actually does it cuz you don't have the balls to do it yourself even though you've been treating her like you're not very happy or you've been dismissing the relationship forever and what it needs and ignoring her... what you're giving her isn't good enough anymore and she wants to find something better even if it means living by herself for the rest of her life to have better cuz she'll treat herself better without you standing in the way to distract her and take her energy time and attention away from that... And then for some reason I know men feel like women need to pay for this they need to be punished because they decided and knew that the man they were giving all their time to and their life too and they gave 20 plus years to and raise their children for and with and throw it on and and catered to and made meals for and clean the house for and did everything for and work their life around isn't a good match for them doesn't appreciate them and pretty much took them for granted... And I don't understand why men think women need to be punished for that or that women are the bad guys because they finally realize that and they just get moving on..??

What I do not understand as a man is how every guy says now she wont have sex with me. The relationship is awful and yet you still want to have sex with her??? Ridiculous. I actually think that a lot of my friends got married for steady sex. Well if that's the case then no wonder it didn't work out. I prefer variety in fact i get board of the same person all the time unfortunately even if they are 10's.

One sign your marriage is failing is you start watch videos like this.

17:16 wait! Do not move out.

21:24. The silver lining here is that maybe the reason the super rich can't hold a woman either is because the woman comes to see how ordinary the guy is as a human and the money and all the other crap doesn't keep them happy for long. With an ordinary guy at least there's usually not the same drastic disappointment relative to expectation.

Ha! Wifey & I went to therapy twice.
First time she found a female hetero therapist recommended by her friend. Conclusion, I was the problem that needs to be fixed. Second time I chose a Man (Male was my only criteria) he turned out to be a gay Male and deduced that she needed to fix herself - I was not the problem.
And yes, your series of indicators are spot on! I’ve seen them all. It’s a cold cruel world gentlemen. Not to worry; when the smoke clears, the healing begins and the future is wonderful/fabulous! Learn how women operate and adjust your expectations accordingly… 🇺🇸👊💥🫡🙏🎉

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

The situation we're in is because of the assumption that women should have default custody. The person who holds the children holds all the power. Our laws have basically made our children hostage to women

well done John! as always..love it dude

John, so many of your videos describe my marriage precisely.
Genius.
Thank you so much for this immense wisdom.

Since I will never get married, I can say with 100 percent certainty that I will never have to deal with any of this, trust me, that is a wonderful feeling to say the least!

I’m the man of the relationship. I’m the one that said “I’m not happy. Things really escalated after she got a promotion at work. I think your video is spot on. We are on the therapy part, I scheduled it.

We have been doing more things more apart. She’s been hanging out with her sister a lot more.

I am also wanting to go on vacation by myself soon.

I have slept in the basement a few times. At my brothers. I’m the affectionate one and I started pulling back the kisses and hugs. She responds coldly to them anyways.

We have had sex once in the last 100 days. Of course, being a man, I’m always down. But she isn’t. And truth be told, last time we did it, it was terrible.

I have been pulling more and more of my checks into my own account as well.

I also have been fantasizing about living alone. Look at homes even.

I guess I don’t know why I’m commenting.

8:10 The "it's your fault" attitude stems from their innate childish mindset. First of all, like John said, nobody is responsible for your happiness except you. 2nd of all, and this is the most ironic part of the entire marriage problem - it's often women's fault. They do not contribute to the relationship positively at all, and even when they do, they feel that they deserve better. They simply have a problem doing things for their own spouse out of the goodness of their own heart and will never even consider the other person's feelings and perspectives.

A great video as usual! So many thing that you mentioned I went through! This really hit home. I've heard of these things from other men and some women too.

This guy just outlined the last 10 months of my marriage

Johns right nothing will work to make your wife happy. Just move on!

It’s happening. You hit the nail on the coffin. Fking sad! But gotta protect myself!

The "I'm not happy" one is spot on . . . so true! External locus of control. My ex said "we're not happy" but basically she meant "I'm not happy and you're to blame". It sounded better to say we rather than I'm.

Good point and you are so right about the other women, her girlfriends encouraging her to stand up, be a woman, don't take that from him, leave him, you deserve better...all the while knowing she will fail or not find any bette or any happiness on the other side.. (Because they are in miserable relationships or are single and lonely). . Women are like that... It's almost comical how they will circle around her like vultures wating for her to crash and burn...Secretly happy on the inside while feining sympathy.

John John John ? The other guy comes first. You’re spinning your wheels if think those other things come first. She’s not happy because someone else is making her happy. You got to put an end to
That first

This aligns with Coach Greg Adams. The wheel of marriage

I ended a great relationship with a wedding.

Bro is working through his divorce publicly

Yikes

Sure I'll take my own vacation with the hott 19 year old waitress I just hooked up with.

It's scary how accurate this is lol

John, you have described my first marriage perfectly. I enjoy watching your videos.

This is why you see so many single people now in this society, they get a dog or cat because they can only listen and you will not get negative feedback from where I sit. There is some positive outcomes to this scenario. A population will decrease in this world is overpopulated. I see world, hunger, people, struggling just for clean water. Have a nice day.😅😅

Happiness is a choice being responsible for someone's emotional wellbeing is exhausting and an exercise in futility! NEVER BE AFRAID TO WALK AWAY!! Better off alone than in the presence of BAD COMPANY!!

Listen To This Man. He describes Archetypes. Core ideas that appear Over and Over. He describes what happened to me. Things that he mentioned that will be said were said to me. VERBATIM.
If you are married or about to be, take all of this to heart. It can befall you at any time.

Mmmmmm maybe you were crappy husband too.