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Tam Kaur

Tam Kaur

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15 DATING RULES THAT CHANGED MY LIFE

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I love your confidence❤🦋🍓
God bless u tam , i level up everyday by u!💖🌸

— @Amy87set

how I stopped wasting my time when dating and found a high value man...

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This is an amazing video. Thank you so much Tam!

— @pujaphuyel

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— @micarasingh

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this doesnt apply if your boyfreidn is poor

— @juanarisso1704

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Great ADDICE...but stop having conversation with TEXT! Men TALK to Women they really like!

— @Crystaldatingrules

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Something fishy

— @thelinkofperfectioncharity9469

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It feels so safe that I am not the only one that made these mistakes, thank you for this video❤

— @ElenavanderZwaard

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Just a doubt...
Why should the guy pay for our nails and bills ???
We are independent and we can do it ourself right ??


Yep when he ask for a date he should pay the bill !
But why should he pay for nails ?

— @neetaspirant__2k26

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For business enquiries please contact: tamkaur@sixteenth.co

Wow literally wow. I'm so glad I found this video thank you divine guruji and universe ❤

— @anjxxliii

📄 ABOUT ME:

My mission is to help young women everywhere become their BEST SELVES and create their dream life. Self-improvement and self-love transformed my life. It took me from being the shy, insecure, unmotivated girl who was always hurt by men... to being the woman who prioritises herself everyday, achieves the goals on her vision board, takes herself on dates, feels fulfilled when alone, has a newfound confidence AND has power over her dating life. I found my purpose in life after working on myself and I want to help and inspire YOU to do the same.

5:38 omgggg this is so relatable rn😭😭😭😭my boyfriend is exactly like that and I'm feeling the same way😭...I am not breaking up with him rather healing my unhealthy attraction pattern!!

— @thegraciee

🏅 My best tutorials on TRANSFORMING yourself and your life:

How to achieve REAL confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_OMPKWJja8&t=599s

14:39 I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

— @slurpwis

How to MASTER feminine energy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vn0jDRNObY&t=127s

How to MANIFEST your desires: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPcUA_sxJHk

A new high-end dating platform is coming soon: Prestige Hearts.

— @PrestigeHearts

How to JOURNAL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtzOWGze4as&t=56s

LEVEL UP your dating life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8EuBUP5yKE&t=39s

I still remember when my 5-year relationship fell apart just a month ago. I was in complete denial and couldn't bear the thought of letting her go. I fought desperately to win her back because I honestly couldn't imagine building a future with anyone else. In the end, I reached out to a spiritual adviser named Priestess Shana Luna White. She guided me through the process, helped bring her back into my life, and now we're happily reunited. I'm truly treasuring every moment we share.

— @johnblas4503

How to GLOW UP: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mlixtJHZZsM&t=43s

How to organise your ENTIRE LIFE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1b2GKSX2Pq8&t=726s

51.000th like🎉

— @Rosa-heo

How to OVERCOME heartbreak: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYfGyboF3L4&t=579s

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4:40 , just a quick question. Is your love for someone that fragile?


This is why I always believe that asian guys/women are much better taught in the matters of 'love' because they don't need to have a set of rules , boundaries or anything. They just create them on their own by being selfless. 😊😊😊


Also , I am saying this because..... This is something people expect....dates,roses,text within 24hrs, situationship,f___boy etc....
But you do need to know this is something created by people and that you just sometimes need to be yourself while 'thinking' about dating and selfless 'while' dating... 😊😊😊

— @MissEndeavour

FAQ:

How old are you? - 22 years old!

Wish I'd seen this 30 years ago!

— @livingwatersaves

Where are you based? England, UK

What's your star sign? Libra sun, Aquarius moon and Cancer rising

Video saved my life ❤

— @Sheismruu

What's your ethnicity? Indian Punjabi :)

Music I use: https://share.epidemicsound.com/aazrn9

i love you

— @Saralaurynlombardo

Camera: Sony ZV E10

Filming & lighting equipment: https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/tamkaur/list/1SBOJS2ER5C9Q?ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d

Thank you for the content you create here on YouTube, you have no idea how much it has helped me, changed my mindset, and now I often wonder how many new versions of myself I can be! ✨✨

— @Vctoria_055

Editing software - Final Cut Pro X

Outro Song Credit - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI

2:07 lol 😂😂 "get out of here" Accent was soo damn good

— @novo.15

My Lip Combo: MAC Lipliner 'Soar', KIKO Smart Lipstick '404', Dior Lip Oil '012'

Eyeliner Tutorial - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFTTi6mp8WM&t=146s

Someone i will allow my 13yr old daughter binge on ❤

— @KiranRoseYT

How I do my makeup - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GK9JUBAiPJg&t=148s

End of 2025 QUEENS?💅💅👑👑🤏🤏??

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Should I be watching this as a teen 🤔

@MbaliGcabashe-q7u
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My boyfriend is a good guy in action, like he take care of me. But he doesn't respect my boundaries, don't understand me. And he makes me feel like am a crazy person.

@InathiInart
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❤❤❤❤

@helllo165
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Girl, I just realized I have so many red flags after watching this video

@ameliazzamanmona9327
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Thank you 🎉

@mehkehunter
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right now I am 17 this video is just guidance for me for my future thanks

@AadritiMishra-j2w
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Great video! Sadly, my two year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly

@McDonaldLauren-x9o
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am also looking for a serious woman if distance means nothing to you dear

@tumaszma1
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❤perfect

@itsalina5497
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“If someone is not a h*ll yes about you, you need to be a f**k no about them.” I love this 😂

@annab7061
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Let me tell you as man this all the filters in your mind,not able to get one for this in your life time.

@harshitsingh5611
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Gurl kid you not, I didn't even had standards before I find her (Tam ). Thank you girl for making me realise how to not put up with nonsense 💗

@Multistan_media
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5:02 that hits home

@Heesuuo
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N°12 is SO important!

@XiaoranFox
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Best video I’ve ever watched - was laughing half the time and yelling preach the other half 😂

@MillieDeaMakesMusic
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This was amazing!!

@THEDOSEOFOSHOW
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0:35 I’ve watched this bit back so many times 😂

@Mellisa.thebrandbuilder
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This woman is now wanting a simp provider with no boundaries to pay for everything. She should pay for her own nails.

@rjflores438
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This woman has a very masculine personality despite the feminine looks, I can guarentee she would be a huge headache in a relationship.

@rjflores438
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This woman constantly contradicts herself.

@rjflores438
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This woman has already shown you the men she is actually attracted to and it isnt "nice guys" that simp, thats for sure.

@rjflores438
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This woman is extremely entitled. There is nothing wrong with going for a coffee as long as the guy pays, and Im a guy who worked in a speciality coffee roasters and coffeeshop so I know some really cool places to go for coffee where a lot of cool creatives meet. The fact that this woman expects a man to pay a lot of money to "wine and dine" her when it is evident here that she is likely to not invest in most men and reject and walk away from them shows that he shouldnt be investing a lot on a first date when it is evident she isnt. It shows that the actual connection with said man isnt as important as she first made out it was. Also, she will be more drawn to guys that dont text back immediatlwy as it shows they have other options with other women.

@rjflores438
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Those women are in situationships out of choice, because those men are not chasing, and it is the women doing the chasing instead, which is way more attractive to women than men who chase their love and validation.

@rjflores438
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This constant use of the word "ick" gives me the ick.

@rjflores438
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This woman has way more power in the dating world than 99% of men, and most men cannot relate to her experience. Even many women cannot either, she is in her mid 20s and at the peak of her attactiveness and fertility and she can have the luxury of never approaching men, constantly reject good looking, intelligent and kind men because there is always something better around the corner. As a guy, I could put in 100 times the effort trying to meet women than she does trying to meet men and she would still have 100x the amount of dating options I would even though im not a bad looking guy. Whem they say women date on easy mode, she is a huge example of that.

@rjflores438
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I am not toxic :)
I talked about my past bc i think to talk about Things is good to understand eachother.
I know they are not my therapist.

@yapping_tomymind_Podcast
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such good advice honestly

@taylorgibbons2071
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When you said that you never screamed each other I cried 😔 this last weeks my bf screamed on me and I have that memory everyday I know what I need to do but I don’t know why I don’t have the courage to let go this

@sharonqui